Okay, so. I feel like I am in love with this girl, we talk everyday and she send me like hearts and what not via text and facebook all that internet shit, right. I have liked her for a long time now, she knows I like her because I'm not the one to hold something like this in forever, but she's told me she likes me but also isn't looking for a relationship. I feel like I'm being 'teased' and I "love" her, she sent me a "december 21st" heart and I am so confused and to add on to it, I think her friend likes me. so long story, short I like her, she likes me but says she isn't looking for a relationship, but acts like she's just waiting for me to ask her out. Any advice? serious answers only.
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I don't usually use this term, but you're getting friend zoned pretty hard. If you don't want a friendship that doesn't turn into the relationship that you're looking for you should consider moving on.
She could also be lying about not wanting a relationship, you never know.
She could also be lying about not wanting a relationship, you never know.
I would say this happens to me often, you just need to tell her how you feel. I'm sure you already know that, but she most likely won't be making the first move and she's expecting you to like almost all the others.
Kyle said:
Girls like to make guys work for them, If you continuously give her attention and make her feel like she is the only girl in the world (even though you are not dating) she will feel that way and cave in for you. Honestly bro, im not on no goober shit im offering real advice, show her attention, tell her how you feel, and every time you guys talk, stay on the topic she starts, when that topic is done being spoken of, try and keep the conversation rolling, but mainly focused on her... They love all the above and also when you remember shit they tell you, mainly little shit that you think does not matter, but still non the less it shows that they have your undivided attention and thats what they want.
That is a great way to get screwed over. Speaking from personal experience, some girls literally just use you for attention. It's a self esteem boost for them, getting compliments and being catered to. As a guy you have no inclination to make the first move or center the relationship on what she wants. If she isn't willing to put forth equal effort then drop her. It's a two way street.
Kyle, same shit happened with me 2 months back. Except, I pussied out from asking her out, and I'm single. You really never know what could happen. Just don't take to long and try to figure out what the hell happened between you two.
Kyle said:
This actually is happening to me right now, I feel you bro.
Anyways, there's this girl I've liked for a while now, and we have a decent relationship. We talk all the time, we hang out all the time, etc. She said she likes me, and since I liked her back, I asked her out, but then got rejected. So I don't know.. She says she likes me, but doesn't wanna be in a relationship this year.. I'm confused as well.
I like her for her looks and personality. She's like perfect for me.. I'm guessing it's the same for you, too.
What I recommend you do,
Keep it up. Hopefully, something will change her mind.
Don't act too obsessive though as you might be a little creepy to her or her friends.
I understand it's hard, I'm experiencing this too, you're not alone, Kyle.
Trust me, just give it some time. Keep trying.
