When's The Appropriate Time To Move On From A Relationship?

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In these past few weeks a relationship ended that I thought was going great until everything went milhouse. (Not getting into that, just some backstory)

Today I found myself going on a date with someone that makes me happy, and after the date I open my phone to about fifty text messages calling me a "player" and "cheater" from my ex who's completely in the wrong anyway.

I really just wanted to ask when you guys would consider that it's "okay" to move on in life.

Personally I think people can do whatever they want as the relationship is over, but I'm sure some people will have a different opinion.
 
How long have you dated that person for? I'll make this a more hq post when i'm home from work
 
Right after you "Fuck her right in the pussy".
 
Deuce said:
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About a year or a year and a half.
We were long distance though and had seen each other only a few times.
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Do you feel as if it was serious relationship? You can't blame her for being upset; it was almost two years of her life with you. It's okay for you to move on, just don't expect her to be okay with it.
 
At times I feel like I can give the best of advice, and at times I feel like my advice is pretty shitty, but my advice for you is to move on.. I wouldn't consider a long distance relationship a real relationship if you can't see the other person, because who knows, you both had easy opportunities to cheat on each other, but I doubt that happen.. and How did your ex know you were on another date?
 
Deuce said:
In these past few weeks a relationship ended that I thought was going great until everything went milhouse. (Not getting into that, just some backstory)

Today I found myself going on a date with someone that makes me happy, and after the date I open my phone to about fifty text messages calling me a "player" and "cheater" from my ex who's completely in the wrong anyway.

I really just wanted to ask when you guys would consider that it's "okay" to move on in life.

Personally I think people can do whatever they want as the relationship is over, but I'm sure some people will have a different opinion.
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Whether the relationship was over a year or not, I feel that if you only saw each other a few times you both must have known it was not going to work out. You waited a sufficient amount of time in my opinion.
 
The answer to your question is not definite. There is no set time to move on from somebody, it is completely situational.
Just remember to respect the grief of your ex, and not be a dick about things.
 
dui said:
Do you feel as if it was serious relationship? You can't blame her for being upset; it was almost two years of her life with you. It's okay for you to move on, just don't expect her to be okay with it.
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It was serious.
And the way things ended she has a reason to be upset. She basically accused me of cheating and then messaged all my family that I cheated on her. (Psychotic?)

Divinitive said:
Whether the relationship was over a year or not, I feel that if you only saw each other a few times you both must have known it was not going to work out. You waited a sufficient amount of time in my opinion.
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Seeing each other a few times doesn't mean it wasn't going to work out.
I have school and so does she, also, I don't come from an extremely wealthy family.

LSX said:
At times I feel like I can give the best of advice, and at times I feel like my advice is pretty shitty, but my advice for you is to move on.. I wouldn't consider a long distance relationship a real relationship if you can't see the other person, because who knows, you both had easy opportunities to cheat on each other, but I doubt that happen.. and How did your ex know you were on another date?
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She knew because I put photos on Facebook and such.
I'd blocked her but we have mutual friends which is how we met.
Also; We'd seen each other twice, one time was for a week and another was for a day.
It was as real as any other relationship.
 
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