Apple said:
Might not want to talk to your members that way Philly, giving a bad reputation as a owner of a website, it's going to make no one want to join and it's going to make a lot of people leave if they see the way you treat your members.
Sorry but if someone is going to talk shit to me, or my website I will defend it. I don't care who the person is. I am not going to let someone disrespect me especially on my own site. It's just not going to happen, and I am completely fine with people wanting to leave for me acting up a tiny bit. I am only human, and when someone pisses me off, I tend to defend myself, and whats mine.
A member like Brenton should have known our situation, and that all the features would be added back over time. I have made it extremely clear that everything will be added back slowly. To help eliminate, and or find any and all vulnerabilities associated with any plugins we may once have used. It's all for a security precaution. I would much rather have the site up and running perfectly fine with features being added over time, rather than be completely offline, and 100% unable to be accessed.
I understand he is obviously our friend and you are trying to defend him, but you also must see it from my perspective. Not even one people here understands exactly what I do, and have done for this website. I deserve to be respected in my opinion, and if you can't give me the respect I deserve I honestly don't want you here. I don't want anyone being disrespected here either, not just me.
As for the new theme I have not had words with the developer something must have came up as he hasn't been on and I have received no update. I think I will be having to hire a different developer as I would like the theme completed sooner rather then later.