Looks vs. Personality

We can't the fact that we will be attracted first by look especially if we don't know the person. There were an instance too that we will be attracted by the personality if we are with that person for a long time, like our classmate, office mates and observed his/her behavior and get attracted with him/her. But for me, personality or characteristics is more important than looks because it lasting but only if the person will not change and also beauty beauty will faded away as the time goes by.
 
Im attracted to a person with good looks first. Honestly. Modestly aside that's how I got attracted to my boyfriend because he is so good looking. But thank God he is not only beautiful outside, but also inside as well. He is kind, generous, God fearing, respectful to elders, and loves me more. And as the years pass by of being together, his personality outshined his exterior good looks. His face is going to get wrinkled anyway as he is getting older, but his personality will just be the same.
 
At first glance, you'd take notice of the looks. But as you get along with the person, you'll soon recognize the personality. If the person is not pleasant to be with, you'll regret the fact that you've admired the beauty.
 
heyitsyim said:
What attracts you to a person, their looks or their personality?
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both go hand in hand.looks is not just looking beautiful,it includes smartness too and that comes from ones personality.a person might now be attractive enough but if he/she has a good dressing sense,and has a polished language a nice gate then he/she will definitely count more than a person who is quite attractive but practically dumb.
 
Its not either/or, its both. You need to be physically attracted and you need to have a personality click at the same time.
Imagine having both..Now that is the definition of happiness.
 
MsRaintree said:
At first glance, you'd take notice of the looks. But as you get along with the person, you'll soon recognize the personality. If the person is not pleasant to be with, you'll regret the fact that you've admired the beauty.
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even a first glance gives you a hint of personality isn't it?your personality is shown in all your activities.the way you talk,the way you walk,the way stand,the way you handle things,the way you eat,the way you hold your pen or your coffee mug everything at all.so no matter if you are not beautiful enough but you can gain attractiveness by polishing yourself.
 
both of them is required if looks is there his personalty is too short means whats the use of look if his personalty is good but he is not wearing the goods clothes means that also waste i think they both are required
 
Looks can be deceiving. I say personality makes a person. A person can have the looks but he has a poor personality, that's no good.
 
I think attraction takes place always on the physical aspect which means looks. I am more interested to people who attracted and stimulated my sense of sight like high nose, cute eyes, full lips, etc.
 
I look at both, looks and personality.
If the person is decent in their looks, that means they already fulfill one of the qualities of their personalities which is to look presentable. Just my opinion though.
If I had to put it in a scale of importance, personality is what I would prefer in comparison to looks. But my initial option what I really do.
 
hmm personality is really really important.. but so are looks.. you cant just be with someone purely based on personality alone. they have to look decent or good
 
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