Learn to love yourself

[mallu30]

When things are happening against us, or against the way we want to, we start to resent people with whom things are going right. I am also getting upset when the things are going against me, and making jealous with the people those who are successful in life. Is it bad? How to control my self?

 

[babychane]

In my opinion, I think being envy with other people's success is not good for you (even with other people too). It's being negative to yourself. Try to have a positive outlook in life and you will see that slowly you will achieve what others achieve too. Focus in yourself, your abilities,strengths and use this to be successful too and you'll see, you will be one of those people who's successful in what ever they do. God Bless ^^

 

[grazmd]

Yes it's true. I think that we should learn to love ourselves first before anybody else. We got to have that self respect so that others will respect us and also give them their due respect. Each one of us has imperfections and if God loves us despite our imperfections we should also not think about it as a hindrance to achieve our dreams and goals in life.

 

[MsRaintree]

Yes that's true. Nobody will love us better than our self. If we can love our self then we are capable of loving others too. We must first be fulfilled with our own life so we can fulfill others' too

 

[dreamteamcoop]

In order to love yourself, you should have self-esteem. Now in order to have Self-Esteem, you should focus on everything you did right, every successes you had in your past (even the little ones). Also don't under-estimate the power of positive thinking. If you always focus on the good things, you'll see the results at a certain time and you'll love yourself. :Smile:

 

[pritilixious]

Yes i agree with this one..learn to love yourself. Learn to acCEPT your limitation.before you can love someone,you must love yourself. Dont get jealous or insecure with the achievements of others,instead make that as a challenge for you to strive harder.

 

[sanjay]

yes i agree with you mine friend. we need to learn how to love our self. i helps to gain good love. means long lasting love.

 

[arunaneupane]

ya, i agree, we should first love ourselves. only then we can love others. we are most close to our self than other so learn to love yourself.