I am depressed today!!!! Don't know if my thinking was wrong???

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Yesterday it was sad day for me.There was a family in my neighborhood that had an accident yesterday.They were coming from party late night and had an accident as the car was hit by a speedy truck. Both husband,wife & a son of almost 2 years died on the spot only daughter of 5 years survived because she was on the back seat when the accident occurred but was seriously injured.Doctors told that the daughter has a severe injuries on head and not sure that she will recover from it or not,there are more chances that she will go in comma and can't say if she will recover in future.

I was so much depressed when i heard about it and thought if the daughter also got killed with her family as i know if she gets in comma she will have no life as no body today in world is as kind who will take care of someone's kid when he/she is in comma as people have become selfish these days.

Suddenly today i heard that the girl died after being kept in ICU whole night and now i feel i was wrong to think that as i have no right to think about someone's life. I was wrong i don't understand. I know that most of the people will say it was better that she died but still i feel i am wrong. I am too sad today thinking about it.
 
phurpa9 said:
Yesterday it was sad day for me.There was a family in my neighborhood that had an accident yesterday.They were coming from party late night and had an accident as the car was hit by a speedy truck. Both husband,wife & a son of almost 2 years died on the spot only daughter of 5 years survived because she was on the back seat when the accident occurred but was seriously injured.Doctors told that the daughter has a severe injuries on head and not sure that she will recover from it or not,there are more chances that she will go in comma and can't say if she will recover in future.

I was so much depressed when i heard about it and thought if the daughter also got killed with her family as i know if she gets in comma she will have no life as no body today in world is as kind who will take care of someone's kid when he/she is in comma as people have become selfish these days.

Suddenly today i heard that the girl died after being kept in ICU whole night and now i feel i was wrong to think that as i have no right to think about someone's life. I was wrong i don't understand. I know that most of the people will say it was better that she died but still i feel i am wrong. I am too sad today thinking about it.

Sad and tragic events stilulate us show human solidarity and they give us a chance to love our neighbor

phurpa9 said:
Yesterday it was sad day for me.There was a family in my neighborhood that had an accident yesterday.They were coming from party late night and had an accident as the car was hit by a speedy truck. Both husband,wife & a son of almost 2 years died on the spot only daughter of 5 years survived because she was on the back seat when the accident occurred but was seriously injured.Doctors told that the daughter has a severe injuries on head and not sure that she will recover from it or not,there are more chances that she will go in comma and can't say if she will recover in future.

I was so much depressed when i heard about it and thought if the daughter also got killed with her family as i know if she gets in comma she will have no life as no body today in world is as kind who will take care of someone's kid when he/she is in comma as people have become selfish these days.

Suddenly today i heard that the girl died after being kept in ICU whole night and now i feel i was wrong to think that as i have no right to think about someone's life. I was wrong i don't understand. I know that most of the people will say it was better that she died but still i feel i am wrong. I am too sad today thinking about it.

Tragedies will not be lacking , but man needs greast wisom to face them
 
okay now relax,
you need not stress yourself.it was not your fault indeed.it was kind that got took her life and saved her from all the misery that was yet to come her way.even i am feeling bad as the news is too devastating specially when it comes from a neighbor.you can do nothing other than praying that their sole rest in peace.
 
You need to have someone to talk to and discuss what's been bothering you. Sometimes it's not healthy keeping depression to yourself. You just got affected in someone else problem which isn't yours actually. The best thing for you, to keep you at peace, is to pray for the soul of the child. And when you do, you'll soon ease down. Content yourself to the fact that the girl wouldn't have to suffer from pain anymore since she's now resting in the palm of God's hand.
 
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