How would I get people to respect me?

sommerlive

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I need help.. people don't respect me, and put too much of a load on me in every aspect of life.

I do keep trying to keep things in shape. by telling exactly how I want things, but I am so stressed, it gets tiring to keep demanding respect constantly. I Need Help
 
respect begets respect. respect other people first and you'll get the respect you need.

you should also have a character that is worth respecting.
 
In my opinion, you can start gaining respect by respecting others. Treat others what you want them to treat you. Simple gestures will not mean harm. Try listening to them and be friendly as possible. Appreciate them and everything that they are doing.
 
try to respect yourself first.by projecting an image that is worth respecting,you can get others to respect you.you should not demand respect.it is earned.
 
sommerlive said:
I need help.. people don't respect me, and put too much of a load on me in every aspect of life.

I do keep trying to keep things in shape. by telling exactly how I want things, but I am so stressed, it gets tiring to keep demanding respect constantly. I Need Help
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for me gaining respect must be begin with you.

you must respect others to gain there respect :))

or just be yourself .
 
Respect is earned, it's not forced. One way to start having people respect you is show them that you are an educated person and it should show on how you talk and act. Another thing you can do is choose people you go with and try to be nice and respect them too.
 
If you want to gain respect, then you should also learn to respect other friends. If you are not good to other people then how can you expect them to be kind for you. So give respect and take respect fren :)
 
just know how to deal w/those kind of people. respect them as they will respect you also. don't argue them it will wasting your time if you know that you are in good tract.
 
I experienced this problem before.
Well maybe you need to be more aggressive.
Speak out and learn to say NO. Learn to say enough is enough.
But above all don't force to be respected. Earn it.
Respect others also, so that they will respect you back.
 
to be respect by others, you must start by yourself. We cannot please everybody,but you can start by showing them a good behaviour and gesture. Show to them that you know how respect others and they will do the same way.
 
sommerlive said:
I need help.. people don't respect me, and put too much of a load on me in every aspect of life.

I do keep trying to keep things in shape. by telling exactly how I want things, but I am so stressed, it gets tiring to keep demanding respect constantly. I Need Help
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simple question, simple answer, if you want to be respected, try to respect them also, simple as that they will return the good things that they give you but if it is the opposite expect that they would trow you a stone.,
 
i think the only way you'll get the respect of others is when you learn to respect yourself.. also, learn to stand alone and be confident. ^^,
 
sommerlive said:
I need help.. people don't respect me, and put too much of a load on me in every aspect of life.

I do keep trying to keep things in shape. by telling exactly how I want things, but I am so stressed, it gets tiring to keep demanding respect constantly. I Need Help
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they said if you want to be respected ,respect first your self as well as others respect you. or just ignored the people who donot respect you.
 
In order to be respected, you must also learn how to respect :) -- this is the most common answer you'll get for this question.

However, there might be some people that are too hard on us that no matter what we do.. its just so hard to please them. I suggest, just continue to do good things in spite of what they do and other people will actually notice and commend you for doing that and those who people who still keep on disrespecting you? -- They'll be ashamed on theirselves for hating someone who's not doing anything on them :)
 
learn to have self respect first and you will not gonna have difficulties in gaining somebody's respect.
 
You need to respect yourself first. Respect others too, so they will respect you back. Respect is earned, you cannot tell other people respect me, because in return they will never respect you.
 
flapiz said:
I experienced this problem before.
Well maybe you need to be more aggressive.
Speak out and learn to say NO. Learn to say enough is enough.
But above all don't force to be respected. Earn it.
Respect others also, so that they will respect you back.
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thank's flavis and all of you for your suggest, i really apprerciate it.
 
For you to be respect by others, you should know first how to respect yourself because how can people respect you if you, yourself can't do it in yourself. and the question is, how can you respect others as well if you, to yourself can't do it
 
try to check your self first in that way you may see the reason why other people does'nt respect you.
 
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