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Alright, so me and my girl have been together for over a year now and early she told me she had a lot on her mind. Well to find out, she told me that she doesn't know whether she likes some other dude or not.. I'm pretty depressed right now and have no idea what to do or say. I tried talking to her about it, but started balling my eyes out. I don't wanna lose her but I dont know what to do..

Can someone help me out?
What should I do?
 
I would just text her and tell you how you feel without sounding all sad and depressed like your life is over none of this :'( or this :''''(. Even if you think your life is over don't act like it. Then let her make the next move, I'm sure she doesn't want you begging and crying to her every hour of the day. Play it cool man.
 
Dude in all honesty when she says she may like someone. End it or make some adjustments. Working things out is just gonna be weird. It won't feel right for you and it makes her feel uncomfortable too I would believe.
 
I 100% agree with Hope's post. As a harsh truth, I would end it.. Why? The fact that she may actually like another guy means that she is not loyal. How? Well she'd obviously talk to the guy enough to get to know him well and don't get me wrong, she should be allowed to have guy friends but she allowed it to get to the point where she would and/or have feelings for him.

To be honest, I hope all goes well and I hope you can figure something out. I sure as hell know it sucks to lose the girl that you have actually had feelings for.
 
Like Hope said, something has to be said to her. Sit her down in real life, and just tell her that she has to focus on your relationship or there shouldn't be one. Otherwise, she's just giving you the run around with this situation since she's probably talking to this dude on the regular.
 
How about you go beat the fuck out of the guy and rearrange his face then make her realize he's ugly and your sexy af, then when she comes crawling back just go get some head.
 
Hi, Theft!

I am here to inform you that this section that you have posted in is merely for questions and suggestions for the improvement of ForumKorner. The correct thread in which you should have posted in is the Innunedo section.

Thanks!
 
Michael said:
Hi, Theft!

I am here to inform you that this section that you have posted in is merely for questions and suggestions for the improvement of ForumKorner. The correct thread in which you should have posted in is the Innunedo section.

Thanks!
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I swear you should be staff. I see you more active and caring for the community more than anyone else.
#MichaelForPrez
 
Hope said:
I swear you should be staff. I see you more active and caring for the community more than anyone else.
#MichaelForPrez
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Tell Philly that. ;). Thanks though, brings me to joy!
 
Hey, Theft.

Re-reading this I really want to voice my opinion and advice but I'm not entirely sure if your situation has been resolved or not, could you please update me?
 
Well we're currently not together anymore, or as you call it "taking a break". She said that it's been weird ever since our first break up, which it has. She said that she didn't even think she liked that kid, and said that it was just a girl problem. She just wants us to start over and start talking again, like dating wise, just to see if we do belong together.
 
Theft said:
Well we're currently not together anymore, or as you call it "taking a break". She said that it's been weird ever since our first break up, which it has. She said that she didn't even think she liked that kid, and said that it was just a girl problem. She just wants us to start over and start talking again, like dating wise, just to see if we do belong together.
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I'm going thru this exact same thing with my girlfriend of 3 years. I'm in a little more of a complex situation, though. It will get better. If you love her, really show her that you will never give up on her.
 
I will man. Thanks everyone. Whenever I see her, and actually get the chance to sit and chat about all of this shit, I'll let you guys know.
 
This happened to my friend, but he continued talking to her and after they broke she got got a new boyfriend. She later realized how much better my friend was for her and they got back together. I have personally never been in such a situation, but just talk with her and see where it goes.
 
Alright, well I'm gonna continue with this thread, even though my account up there^^ is banned..

Me and her have been talking a lot more. She told me that she still loves me more than anything and that after everything gets situated, we most likely will end up together again:) She just wanted to take a short break, I guess. At least, that's what I hope. Hopefully, we will get back together soon:)
 
Theft said:
Alright, well I'm gonna continue with this thread, even though my account up there^^ is banned..

Me and her have been talking a lot more. She told me that she still loves me more than anything and that after everything gets situated, we most likely will end up together again:) She just wanted to take a short break, I guess. At least, that's what I hope. Hopefully, we will get back together soon:)
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Damn, dude. I would kill to be in your boat right now.. Keep your head up and never give up.
 
Prepare said:
Damn, dude. I would kill to be in your boat right now.. Keep your head up and never give up.
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I hope you meant Keep your head up and never give up, in a sexual reference. If so, I love it :)
 
So.. After a few days of talking she tells me what's actually going on.. Her stepdad has just gotten some type of cancer, that only her mom knows about. She won't tell her what type of cancer until they are for sure about it.

She told me that she just doesn't wanna be in a relationship, right now, because of all the stuff going on. She just wants me to be her best friend.

I've decided to take part in that and after all this is cleared up and we know that it's done and over with, I'm going to ask her back out. I wanna be the one that she goes to for all her problems and I wanna remain close to her, so I still have a shot.


Last night, she hit me with a quote.
"If you love something let it free, if it was truly yours, it will come back."
I just hope that me and her were truly meant to be together.
 
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