Do you still Love your partner?

[piajur]

hello everyone i know some of us have some problems and one of this is like the one that i have now, so i'm asking everyone to please tell me in your own opinion that what will you do if you don't love your partner anymore even if you are living together and have a child even though your not married?

 

[supahmanross9]

First ask yourself, why are you feeling this way towards your partner? Is it because you fell out of love just like that? Or is there something you would like her to change or maybe there are some matters you need to discuss with her?As I stated in one of my early posts, love is a decision and is not based on feelings alone. That is because feelings are dynamic, they tend to wear out or grow more intense. Try to reflect and see if you can live without her. Try to consider what will life be for your child if you go on your separate ways. Isn't there any hope you could give your relationship a chance? Fights are normal in a relationship especially when you live in together since you discover the "real" personality of your partner. But if you do accept her for what and who she is then you would be willing to adjust and adapt to whatever things you discover about her. I hope and pray that everything goes well with u and your family. God blesS!

 

[jhef001]

hello everyone i know some of us have some problems and one of this is like the one that i have now, so i'm asking everyone to please tell me in your own opinion that what will you do if you don't love your partner anymore even if you are living together and have a child even though your not married?

i dont have my partner anymore mate.

but before i had one my girlfriend and now we don't have any communications too sad dor that.

 

[piajur]

First ask yourself, why are you feeling this way towards your partner? Is it because you fell out of love just like that? Or is there something you would like her to change or maybe there are some matters you need to discuss with her?As I stated in one of my early posts, love is a decision and is not based on feelings alone. That is because feelings are dynamic, they tend to wear out or grow more intense. Try to reflect and see if you can live without her. Try to consider what will life be for your child if you go on your separate ways. Isn't there any hope you could give your relationship a chance? Fights are normal in a relationship especially when you live in together since you discover the "real" personality of your partner. But if you do accept her for what and who she is then you would be willing to adjust and adapt to whatever things you discover about her. I hope and pray that everything goes well with u and your family. God blesS!

thanks for the advice and comment but i think the reason why am i feeling this is because maybe your right in what you have said its because i wanted to change something from her and if she goes like this i don't know how long will i hold on to the things even though i think of my daughter's future of being with her as she grows but things are really get hard to stay the same, maybe someone would have thought this the wrong way or even say that i have someone new but all i can say i don't have anyone, this is only the reason why i felt like this.

 

[AwesomeDude]

Well, I love my partner.. but the problem is that she doesn't know that I love her. And she acts like she doesn't know that I love her.. like normal persons, but we are good

 

[piajur]

if thats the case try to tell her now before its too late... that's the best things you should do now...

 

[arnelia]

Yes i still love my partner,we been together for 7 years now.he is the father of my 2 children.up's and down of relationship is normal thing.

 

[babychane]

I love my partner very much even we had some fights these past few days. If we have problems we make sure that we can talk about it (usually he asks about it because I'm a stubborn girl :Tounge:. It's good for a couple to have a small talk when they got problems. In your case, why don't you think of why you feel this way? Why you feel that you out of love with your partner? I know that there are answers in every questions and it's better if you find it out soon. After asking yourself, you can try to talk it over with your partner. It's a big thing that you two will have a small and serious talk with your partner. Good luck and God bless ^^