Do you beat your kids?

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As a parents we know about the pains and vain in the parenting and know the importance of the kids. I don't like to beat my son by my own as well as don't allow any one to beat him. Even his teachers don't have the rights to beat my son and i never support if his teacher beat him for any case. This kind of beatings never give any good thing to the kids, it may give some hatred to them about the person.

Don't try to guide your kids by beating or blaming them and never allow any other person to beat your child to correct them in a good way, this kind of kids whoever punished by other person may turn as terrorist, so guide them with love and care and never allow them to hate you as well as change their path in to a wrong way with your activities, parents are the role model of the kid, give your uttermost care to them and always watch each and every activity of your kids.
 
I am a parents also,i believe beating for the kids cannot help to them to know what is good and what is wrong.i think as a parents we need to talk to them in a nice way,we need to tell the do and dot's so maybe they will listen than beating them,they will hate us if they know if they done something wrong and we beat them.
 
I don't have a child but I can share my opinion about this since once in my life I was a child. No one. Absolutely, no one has any right to beat a child. They beat the child, because the child does not retaliate. The child is helpless. The child is at their mercy. The parents and teachers take advantage of this and sadistically take out their own frustrations on the children. What if they try doing this to someone of their age and strength? They will get it back. That is why they don't do that. They look for helpless children, find faults and beat. This is inhuman.

In any civilized society such practices should be punishable. A child is like a flower. The child needs love, care and proper guidance. No beating and no harsh words. A child does not come into the world to learn things, solve sums and become a scientist overnight. A child comes to this world to make this world a better place with its innocence and curiosity.

Why not beat everyone on the earth, who needs correction? And who does not need correction? Ask any boss, and according to them, all the assistants need some correction. Ask any married person and they will tell you thousand deficiencies of their partner. Ask a leader and they will tell you how all the opposition leaders are bankrupt in their thinking. And find out about the Presidents and Prime Ministers from the opposition leaders and you will get an earful.

The whole world needs correction. Next time, before a child is beaten, let us line up all the citizens of this world and correct all of them. Who will do that? No one is left out. Better stop touching a child. That should be the message to all the parents and teachers. Let this practice stop forever in all the countries.
 
Here is one thing I know that studys shows that it really helps. "Only love can change a person." You may think "yeah right!" or "this guy is mental!" But it's true. You can only find out when you try. :)
 
arnelia said:
I am a parents also,i believe beating for the kids cannot help to them to know what is good and what is wrong.i think as a parents we need to talk to them in a nice way,we need to tell the do and dot's so maybe they will listen than beating them,they will hate us if they know if they done something wrong and we beat them.
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Spanking the child in the bottom is the right way to let them know why they are spank by the parents.It is also Biblical to teach the kids.Tell them why they are spank is because they did not obey in the 1,2,3rd place of discipline.It is the right way to spank the child in the bottom.But do it rightly and do not abuse it.
 
supahmanross9 said:
I don't have a child but I can share my opinion about this since once in my life I was a child. No one. Absolutely, no one has any right to beat a child. They beat the child, because the child does not retaliate. The child is helpless. The child is at their mercy. The parents and teachers take advantage of this and sadistically take out their own frustrations on the children. What if they try doing this to someone of their age and strength? They will get it back. That is why they don't do that. They look for helpless children, find faults and beat. This is inhuman.

In any civilized society such practices should be punishable. A child is like a flower. The child needs love, care and proper guidance. No beating and no harsh words. A child does not come into the world to learn things, solve sums and become a scientist overnight. A child comes to this world to make this world a better place with its innocence and curiosity.

Why not beat everyone on the earth, who needs correction? And who does not need correction? Ask any boss, and according to them, all the assistants need some correction. Ask any married person and they will tell you thousand deficiencies of their partner. Ask a leader and they will tell you how all the opposition leaders are bankrupt in their thinking. And find out about the Presidents and Prime Ministers from the opposition leaders and you will get an earful.

The whole world needs correction. Next time, before a child is beaten, let us line up all the citizens of this world and correct all of them. Who will do that? No one is left out. Better stop touching a child. That should be the message to all the parents and teachers. Let this practice stop forever in all the countries.
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Well said. Speaking of beating children, parents should realize that beating their kids causes trauma. As they grow older, they'll start to resent their parents, and I'm sure the parents wouldn't want that to happen, right?
 
I dont have kids now but if i do have in the near future i will not beat them because it will cause for them to be not controllable and they we will get a hard time teach them the right thing to do.
 
For me till now i dont have kid,when i have after i will know what will happen with the parents,so very soon i will be parent and i will tell you.
 
I avoid doing such as much as possible as doing it evrytime they commit a mistake would never yield a good outcome. I do beat my son lightly just during extreme situations.
 
That's horrible, why would you do that? The farthest I'd ever go is yelling. I'd never hit kids.

The best way for them to listen is to talk to them. Violence never works.
 
Yes I beat my kid but very rarely a slap perhaps and not a hard one. That makes sense. He should know that he is not the boss around and deserves a knock when acts too foolish.That is good for his future. Not for every thing bad though.
 
i dont have kid,to those who have kids,my advice to you ,you shoudnt bit your kid. thats not the way to teach them good things sometimes that would make them to hate you.
 
vidhyaprakash said:
As a parents we know about the pains and vain in the parenting and know the importance of the kids. I don't like to beat my son by my own as well as don't allow any one to beat him. Even his teachers don't have the rights to beat my son and i never support if his teacher beat him for any case. This kind of beatings never give any good thing to the kids, it may give some hatred to them about the person.

Don't try to guide your kids by beating or blaming them and never allow any other person to beat your child to correct them in a good way, this kind of kids whoever punished by other person may turn as terrorist, so guide them with love and care and never allow them to hate you as well as change their path in to a wrong way with your activities, parents are the role model of the kid, give your uttermost care to them and always watch each and every activity of your kids.
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Well said. Speaking of beating children, parents should realize that beating their kids causes trauma. children r like flowers,should be well cared and well nourished.The best way for them to listen is to talk to them and understand them
 
i dont have still kids but i dont agree to be the kids punished or bets for not doing good thing i think we much explain to them what is the good or bad things i am sure they will understand
 
vidhyaprakash said:
As a parents we know about the pains and vain in the parenting and know the importance of the kids. I don't like to beat my son by my own as well as don't allow any one to beat him. Even his teachers don't have the rights to beat my son and i never support if his teacher beat him for any case. This kind of beatings never give any good thing to the kids, it may give some hatred to them about the person.

Don't try to guide your kids by beating or blaming them and never allow any other person to beat your child to correct them in a good way, this kind of kids whoever punished by other person may turn as terrorist, so guide them with love and care and never allow them to hate you as well as change their path in to a wrong way with your activities, parents are the role model of the kid, give your uttermost care to them and always watch each and every activity of your kids.
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:Devil:No never, this is practice of illetrate parents or higly educated ones who are done away with kids,are too busy in their own lives that then they never listen to their words or demands. Beating kids is sin, its disgusting and when i feel or read such articles i think about the parents like who might be so cold hearted.:Alien:
 
in psychology beating a child is not accepted. talk to the child in softest way give them warming and explain very carefully what is right and wrong. give them a good example when explaining but don't ever compare to other child.
 
jannet said:
in psychology beating a child is not accepted. talk to the child in softest way give them warming and explain very carefully what is right and wrong. give them a good example when explaining but don't ever compare to other child.
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you are right, we must give our soft side to our kids to guide them in a good way, beating or blaming never show the good path to them, it will spoil the little kids
 
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