Well i have been depressed for the past month, shit has been getting on my mind and i have no clue what to do anymore. It seems like i am loosing friends and i am dedicating my self to my virtual life more then IRL. I have really bad grades in school and my parents are mad at me. I don't do anything anymore. I haven't done any homework this year and now that it's getting close to the end of the year I am now regretting it since i don't want to stay back. I don't want to ruin my summer having to do online courses to get my credits. School is challenging for me and i do not enjoy anything about it. Everything is so hard in life and I am failing at everything and I don't know how much longer I can live like this.
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I'll be completely blunt with you here. I've been in the same situation. Only you can change this. You've recognized the problem but it's your problem to fix. Nobody can fix it for you. I can't say "do x and you'll have a million friends". You've got to get yourself out. Go out and do something. If you're old enough, get a job. If not, go ride a bike, jog, something to just be out. People will see you as a more interesting person.. Also, make new friends who do things (other than computers) that you like. (Whether it be smoking pot, skateboarding, or some weird cult that's just a giant orgy.) Point is, get out there. They wont come to you.
About the grades, that's again only something you can change. Don't understand the work? Ask for help. Just not doing it? Then get off of the internet and work. The fact is these are all small issues that are piling on you and making you feel worse than things actually are. Go associate with people. Talk to a girl who you thinks out of your league just because 'yolo'. Once you break out of that comfort zone everything becomes easier. Trust me. After I realized this my life's become better. Not great, and no I'm not 'popular' but I'm happy and better off than I used to be. Just be yourself but you've got to put effort.
About the grades, that's again only something you can change. Don't understand the work? Ask for help. Just not doing it? Then get off of the internet and work. The fact is these are all small issues that are piling on you and making you feel worse than things actually are. Go associate with people. Talk to a girl who you thinks out of your league just because 'yolo'. Once you break out of that comfort zone everything becomes easier. Trust me. After I realized this my life's become better. Not great, and no I'm not 'popular' but I'm happy and better off than I used to be. Just be yourself but you've got to put effort.
Cudi said:
I went through almost the same exact thing, except with bud instead of video games. I smoked everyday (4 times at my peak), and that caused me to lose focus in school, and become really detached from my friends. One day I woke up and came to the realization that I was blaming everyone/anything possible for everything that was happening.
Not much time has gone since I've actively tried to better my grades (its now a 4.0), and reestablish my friendships.
You just have to try man, you recognize you're having problems just make your goal right now to do better in school, and at the same time be social/friendly.
Life becomes too hard to handle at times, with everyone just being dumped on you one by one. Just take an active stance in dealing with these things in the best way possible, thats what will help you the most.
If you need to talk about this, you could always PM me. My PM box is always open.Cudi said:
You should try and think of what you like in life. Go out with friends, hang out with people, and be social. Being away in your room won't help you in anyway because you're secluded from everyone else and you're not benefiting yourself.
Megaman said:
You too. If you need to talk, hit me up.
I was at that point in my life not too long ago. I had friends but didn't really hang out with them. Now I do both. I hang out with friend everyday and I am on FK. I balance them both. Friends are one of the most important things in life. I would disagree that smoking pot is a better alternative than being on the computer so long but if you do it don't do it all the time. I limit myself.
Don't feel depressed because your life will get better before you know it.
Focus on school. Get better grades. Get your dick wet. Go lick a dogs butthole. Idk just go out.
The best bet is to build your social life up.
I wish you the best.
Don't feel depressed because your life will get better before you know it.
Focus on school. Get better grades. Get your dick wet. Go lick a dogs butthole. Idk just go out.
The best bet is to build your social life up.
I wish you the best.
Cudi said:
I'm going to be the dick here who knocks some sense into you right here, right now. Alright so first off, once you're done with reading my reply you may re-post back towards me, or even PM me. But after that I suggest logging off of FK and all other web site that is a distraction. You're losing your friends because you're spending too much time on the internet! Believe me, been there done that. Stop it before it's too late, it happened to me and I regret not realizing till it was too late. So in the nicest way possible, Cudi get of! Alright not approaching another thing, your parents are mad at you for not trying. That's about as obvious as I or anyone else could word it my man. Parents will never be irritated with you as long as you put effort forth and they can see it. The funniest thing is, I learned this one too late as well. You're getting something I didn't, advice first hand. Get your shit together right here, right now, tonight. It's not too late either bud, you could pull off passing grades (even though your GPA is demolished for this year). You need to confront your teachers and tell them straight forward. "I messed up, I put forth nothing, and got nothing in return. Yeah it's my fault, but I wish to make up for my faults before it's too late." I guarantee you if you have a decent teacher unlike I did, they will do anything possible if you show EFFORT, and you put time into it. Finally you're lucky I'm not tearing your head off for this. It's too hard? Ha bull, you're not trying yet again. Well hot damn I sound like my parents now, but excuse that fact. You need to give effort, to receive something in return. I also can tell from this thread, you're easily a freshman. A freshman, or maybe an eight grader. I'm telling you this now, but you won't understand for another 3 years or so. Get your head out of your ass, and focus. Annoy the hell out of those damn teachers until they help you, and try. I promise you, once you succeed it'll get better. "When you're down so low, and you see no light, light will always prevail." I said that to myself so many times as I went through the same issues, and I pulled through. I'm back on the internet, I have a girlfriend, a job, a happy life. Now take my word or don't, it's your choice. I'm just laying it out to you, something I wish I got back then.
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