Decisions..

arnelia

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Decisions are being made right now. The question is, Are you making them for yourself, or are you letting others make them for you?
sometimes we let other's to decide especially our parents.
 
I decide for myself. What I normally do is to ask for suggestions from others and take note of the pros and cons they see and weigh things over-that is only when i come up with a decision.
 
arnelia said:
Decisions are being made right now. The question is, Are you making them for yourself, or are you letting others make them for you?
sometimes we let other's to decide especially our parents.

At this time, I am the one who is making all the decisions for myself and for the rest essential aspects in my life. But somehow, if I am faced with a great dilemma over important and certain things, I tried to seek advice about the right decision and I don't really feel bothered and I don't really mind at all about others deciding for myself as long as I know it will not lead me to a bad or wrong path especially if its my mom and my aunt who will tell me about it.
 
arnelia said:
Decisions are being made right now. The question is, Are you making them for yourself, or are you letting others make them for you?
sometimes we let other's to decide especially our parents.

My parent grew me up letting decide for myself. But in times that i am confused with that decision there they are to enlighten me up. if you let others for you decide, where is freedom from that? Where is maturity?
 
arnelia said:
Decisions are being made right now. The question is, Are you making them for yourself, or are you letting others make them for you?
sometimes we let other's to decide especially our parents.


I see no problem if my parents would decide things for me since I'm confident that what would be their decision is, it's only for my own good. There are times as well that we don't like our parents decision but we have to obey because they are our parents. We may not like it but they know better and like I said, it's always for our own good. We may not see it at the moment but in the long run it turns out right. It's different when you're an adult already, parents decisions may be considered but at the end of the day, it's going to be your decision that would matter.
 
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