best thing to do

[jannet]

what will you do if one of your sister always takes advantage on you? will you tolerate it? what will you do to get rid on it?

 

[rose09]

what will you do if one of your sister always takes advantage on you? will you tolerate it? what will you do to get rid on it?

The best thing to do in this situation is to refrain from a feeling of vindictiveness. We should forgive her, as forgiveness is a divine act. We feel happy if we forgive a person who has done wrong to us.

 

[supahmanross9]

I will have the guts to tell her she should stop doing that.I will tell it to her in a polite manner and make her understand that she is my sister and there's nothing wrong if she asks for favors or help but she should learn to stand on her own and the advantage of that is it would make her strong to face all life's challenges. I will tell her as well that I am not angry about it, it's just a sisterly advice because I love her and I care for her welfare.

 

[belleangelbelle]

At first I will let her do that for a couple of time but after like 5 or 6 times I will react and tell her how I feel about her doing. I would even get mad to let her know that I don't like what she was doing.

 

[Feckhole]

What type of sister? you mean like a blood-line sister or like another woman or a black female?

Im confused, also am i the only one that's noticed the amount of fanatics on here??

 

[PinoyKaizen]

what will you do if one of your sister always takes advantage on you? will you tolerate it? what will you do to get rid on it?

Sometimes I tolerate it because I dont want to argue with her I just want to let her feel that im not her enemy but her friend and brother.

 

[erickjose191984]

Best thing to do is find a online job and make money so that you will have money to pay bills and stuff.

 

[darkbakshi]

The best and right thing to do is to confront her. Nothing will get fixed if you will not talk about that matter.

 

[MsRaintree]

I think it's not taking advantage. It is just that she has no one else to turn to in times of need. I believe we can sense if someone is taking advantage of us but a sibling is someone we have to help when she needs it really badly. As much as possible, if we really can afford it and what she is asking for is reasonable enough then extend help but if she is really doing that as a habit to live without having to work for herself, then try to ease down a bit. Just make sure that you know where your help goes to. Is it really helping her? or just really plainly taking advantage of your kindness.

 

[anna]

i will directly tell that i don't like what she is doing using me. i will inquire my parents and make them punish her.

 

[vidhyaprakash]

what will you do if one of your sister always takes advantage on you? will you tolerate it? what will you do to get rid on it?

i faced this situation in my life, i have one elder sister and she dominates me most of the time, i am sportive person and take it easily, but i don't tolerate if the domination is very high and i try my maximum to control her activity

 

[khanafr]

what will you do if one of your sister always takes advantage on you? will you tolerate it? what will you do to get rid on it?

If that was the case, have only one sister, then i would give her the opportunity to take advantage over me, and always be ready to tolerate her, but unfortunately i don't have any sister to give her opportunity to take advantage over me and tolerate her.

 

[pritilixious]

i think if i know that my sister is doing something bad,i wont tolerate her.cause the moment that you allow her to take advantage of you, she will do that over and over again.and for sure i dont want her to be in a wrong road,as a sister, i want her to be good,and if it means is to confront her,to enlighten her mind,and to make her understand that what she is doing,would not do any good for her.