Chill said:I've been in the same situation once before only we broke up and she had sex with somebody, then we got back together.
Personally I don't think anybody can give you advice on this dude, it's something you have to experience yourself and make a decision based on your own thoughts. In my situation we got back together and let me tell you, it was hell. It was all rosey for about 5-6 months then it just went peared shaped for no apparent reason. If I were to give any advice it'd be move on. As hard as it sounds it normally is the best option, stay friends and just fly solo for a while until you meet somebody else.
Situation 2: If she genuinely cares about you and actually wants to work things out don't make it easy for her. Make her show you that she does indeed love you, don't be the one trying to chase her after her actions.
WuTang said:I would not get back with her she cheated on you!!
she'll most likely do the same thing again, just friendly advice...
you are very much a softy, being a softy gets you cheated on. Just saying!!!Golem said:Yes, she cheated on me.
But tell me this, if you dating the same person from a kid to an adult and you fell in love with said person, cared for them more than anything else in the world. Would you be able to give up that easy? I dunno maybe I'm just too much of a softy haha.
Well, I have gained a lot of respect with the way I act now. I'm not very ashamed of it, but I do get tired of somewhat being used because of how nice I am to everyone.WuTang said:you are very much a softy, being a softy gets you cheated on. Just saying!!!
You're an idiot.WuTang said:you are very much a softy, being a softy gets you cheated on. Just saying!!!
very very true, but it did in my case.Chill said:You're an idiot.
Being a softy doesn't get you cheated on, you have no idea who he is or who she is. You have no idea of either of their situations.
Heyyyy now, no need for the names man.Chill said:You're an idiot.
Being a softy doesn't get you cheated on, you have no idea who he is or who she is. You have no idea of either of their situations.
WuTang said:very very true, but it did in my case.
I'm talking from personal experience..
i don't speak retard/edate? what you saying boy?Rare said:Personal experience? Your last date was probably over Skype and were edating for 3 weeks and she showed another guy her tits.
OP: Please just listen to Chill or anyone else over the age of like 17, sorry to hear about this.
WuTang said:i don't speak retard/edate? what you saying boy?
he's actually a year younger than me, which is pretty funny.Therapy said:He is saying you are young, and you most likely have no experience with girls.
Sorry to hear about this fam. Like @Rare said, listen to @Chill or someone who is an actual adult.
WuTang said:he's actually a year younger than me, which is pretty funny.
Thanks fam, despite the fact that this thread kinda turned out wrong with everyone arguing. You all had some pretty valuable points in this situation, I'm still thinking about what I'm going to do though, it'll probably take a few days for me to make my decision.Therapy said:I was not saying anyone is different ages, nor did I know both of your ages. It was just a common sense post saying to let an adult or someone who has legit experience with multiple females to reply.
OT, good luck finding out what to do.
Golem said:Thanks fam, despite the fact that this thread kinda turned out wrong with everyone arguing. You all had some pretty valuable points in this situation, I'm still thinking about what I'm going to do though, it'll probably take a few days for me to make my decision.
Joker said:[font=Tahoma, Verdana, Arial, sans-serif]Let it take days dude, if you don't you'll jump into something and it could cause an outburst in a few days.[/font]
[font=Tahoma, Verdana, Arial, sans-serif]Lay low, be friends. Don't straight take her back, she'll feel like all is forgiven and you're easy.[/font]
[font=Tahoma, Verdana, Arial, sans-serif]My tip, be you.. find you for the next few days, see how you feel.. go and do your hobbies and live life and see if you really do miss her, if you do.. check up on her. If she's still texting you and really misses you you're showing her how much she really liked you, which is good.. she will learn her lesson and may not do it again but no one knows, that's the thing about relationships they can always take the turn.[/font]
[font=Tahoma, Verdana, Arial, sans-serif]You've got to ask yourself, would you accept being hurt one more time to show you that you don't need her? that's if she hurts you again.[/font]
coltie2 said:If sorry but she cheated on you. Have some dignity and move on please.
Unless she is your DREAM girl and you want nothing more then her. If that isn't the case you need to move on
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