Okay well, I don't really know where to begin. My girl, well now my ex.. She cheated on me about a week or so ago. We're still talking now just as friends, but she asked me if I thought me and her would ever get back together, Half of me says yes and half says no. I could say yes because I still love her to death since she was the first girl I've ever fallen in love with, we dated for about 4-5 years from when I was 12 to 17(now), and well it's gonna be really hard for me to not talk and be with somebody that I spent so much of my life with. And I could say no because well, I don't really know what else she's done behind my back, and I truly think that if somebody hurt you one time or lied to you about it that they will eventually do it again because if you let them get away with it then they would have no problem doing it again thinking that you'll just forgive them for a second time.
Anyways, I don't know if this is the right place to post this. But yeah, I just need help I don't know what to do or think about all of this. I hope all of you have a good day/night.
Edit: Well, I ended up taking her back about a week ago.. And so far she has been showing she cares so much more and hasn't been acting weird or acting like she's doing anything behind me back. We spend a lot of time together and everything is just great now. I'm happy again, no I don't fend on her for my happiness but she is a really big contribution to my happiness.
Anyways, I'm just hoping all goes well from now on. She explained to me everything on why she did it, and well knowing me.. I forgave her because I can't keep a grudge against anybody. Sorry to the people that thought I should've just left, but thank you everyone for the advice!