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[Devour]

I just broke up with my girlfriend we've been going out for almost 8 months I really do love her and she loves me Idk we just argue a lot it sucks I've just had this horrible feeling all day since I've done it. What sould u do?

Please no fucking spam or shit talking from some of the fagots of the site.

 

[illuminatii]

Do you two spend a lot of time with each other? Like hanging out every day, and shit like that?

 

[Poe]

What should I do. *

And sorry to hear that my dude , why would you break up with her if you still love her ? Everyone argues . Me and my girlfriend have an argument like a few times a day and we usaully make up sometimes we don't but breaking up over an argument is really stupid unless it was something serious like cheating.

 

[Devour]

No we never cheated on each other its just a lot of stuff my I work and I don't always have time for her I try to see her almost every day are fights just get more and more serious and worse every week it seems like

 

[illuminatii]

I think you guys need a bit of a break.
Like continue to date or whatever, just space from each other for like a week.
But every relationship has its ups and downs, and fights and arguments, it will get better.

 

[Poe]

Just sit down with her and talk with her. And you should both say what you don't like and what you want to change.

 

[Paul H.]

One thing that helps with me and my girlfriend is just taking some time to just talk to her on the phone at random times in the day. Walking to class? Call her up. Driving to McDonalds? Give her a call. Bored as hell? Dingaling time. The more you can talk to her the better. Just talk about life, the universe, and everything. Keeping good communication is key.

 

[Envious.]

Fend does have a really good point. Breaking up because of arguing is dumb unless the arguements get really heated or turn physical, because if thats the case maybe you two should be broken up. But breaking over a few arguements seems childish imho. Maybe if it was something more serious like how Fend stated. Like one of you cheated or something like that then I could see a solid reason to end that relationship.

 

[GENIUS]

Try taking a break from each other for a week or so, then later on I would call back, check on her, and try to re-build the positive relationship and then you guys can start going out again from then on after everything has been amended.

 

[Devour]

Thanks guys were just gonna take a ill break for a week

 

[Chrisu]

Thanks guys were just gonna take a ill break for a week

Honestly, a break does help. When I was just starting in my relationship, we used to argue a little bit about lack of communcation and what not. So we decided it would be best if took a break. The break just consisted of not talking to each other, doing things on our own, etc. We did this for around 2 weeks or so. After the 2 weeks, we started to talk again, re-opened the flame and saw the flaws we had in us before, because when you take a break, you really think hard on what was making the fighting and arguing happen. Since ours was communication, we just talked more and did more with each other. That solved our problem.

You need to find what is causing this arguing, and on your week break that you are going to take, both of you think long and hard on what was causing it and think of solutions, then we you get back together or whatever, try it out and see if it is improving your relationship, or making it worse. But remember, EVERYONE argues the odd time, if you argue here and then, no worries. Love is stronger than that, you can work it through if you put effort in, just like anything else. I'm sure you will fix it with her and things will work out just fine.

 

[Cesar]

sit with her or text/call and just let her know what you feel for her and what she feels for you.
its not easy to throw away a relationship that almost hit a year. open up and fix the issues.
=)