I don't really mind someone mentioning the name of the person I am no longer connected with. It does not really matter to me because the memory of that person has long been suppressed or buried deep in my subconscious. This time, it would be just an ordinary name that doesn't ring a bell, anymore.
Yes, i do hate it when someone mentions someone's name or somethings i don't wanna remember. I get uncomfortable and slightly mad coz i wanna forget all of those but still some thoughtless person comes along and opens up the closed topic again :Alien:
To avoid stress and anger, yes i wish not to hear the names of people i don't want to remember. anyway they don't exist in my life and they don't matter nor contribute to whatever progress I have