what do you do if your friends borrowed money from you but she didnt pay you?

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Do you experienced your friends borrowed money from you but she didnt pay it?what did you do? Do you ask her to repay you? or she will get mad? i had a friend who borrowed money from me but its been 5 years now still she didnt pay it ,i think she has no more plans to pay it, i didnt hear from her until now i think shes really forgot it.i try to text her i'd say that i need the money but she dont reply actually its only 5,000pesos only.another lesson learned we should be careful in choosing a friend cos sometimes they just make friends to us because they can see that they can get something to us.i hate that kind of friends shes a user she disappear after she got the money how bad.:Sick::Sick::What:
 
I have a friend also borrow money for me,it only 1000 pesos,until now she didn't pay me,i never asked him to pay either because i know what life she had.i know sometime's she did'nt eat because she dont have money to buy.but its ok even she didn't pay me..she's my friend that would never change.
 
Well this is difficult one for me, because a 'she' is involved. Well jokes apart, if she has no intention to pay back, you should ask her the reason first. May be she is really in trouble and not able to pay. May be she will pay it when she has it. But please go through all the possibilities. I would ask her in case she wants any thing more and now her intentions that way.
 

hi arnelia nice to see you again here in my thread ,atleast she explain to you and you how difficult is her life unlike my friends both them are working and she has the money if she want to pay but she didnt do it to pay me she disappear without leaving explanation.
 

i've experienced this 3 times..i never learned i guess. i think i am just that kind and considerate of people who need money. and you're right, we should be careful in choosing our friends.
 

That's a sad story. It does not really matter if how much is the money borrowed but the fact that you trusted him/her to pay back is the important thing! I never tried having a friend who did not pay back the amount that was borrowed from me. I don't just let anybody borrow my money even if I know them and they are my friends. I only let my close friends and best friends borrow money though it is very rare from them to ask that.
 
it depends on the situation, if my friend is capable of paying his debt to me and refuse to pay i will get mad. it is his obligation to pay me because i trusted him and the money that i lend him came from all my hardwork. he should be responsible enough to do what is right, but if he can't pay me because he truly can't then, it's 100% fine with me. what are friends for?
 
what will i do will really depend on a number of factors. First it will depend on the amount. If the amount is not that big, I may just ignore it, but it will leave a doubt if the person is really a friend or not. Second, there is a difference when a person is just not able to pay due to unavoidable/pressing situations or the person has no intention to pay at all-the latter is quite disgusting and for sure i will severe ties with the person and may even sue the person if the amount is substantial.
 
This is why you should only lend what's willing to your heart. Think of if ever he/she can't pay me, at least it will not be a source of something that could ruin your relationship with that person.
 
Well if mine fren had bnrrowed money from me and have not returned to me till 5 or more than that years , i would leave that money to her. Its the time to recognize your friend. What he/she can do just for the money so u stay away from them interms of money and never lend money for them.
 
i dont know what i will do coz many friend borrow my money and they didn't return,now i didn't ask them any more to return,so i dont know what to do.
 
I experienced it with most of my friends, honestly i am kind heart person, lot of my friends using my weakness and borrow a lot of money from me, they never even think about giving my money back to me:Crying:. It's ok what can we don with this kind of people? better to keep distance from them. Don't give your money here after to your friend
 

Of course I'll feel bad because I need that money and it's my hard earned money but of course a friend is a friend we have to know the reason why he can't pay you. I believe a friend who wasn't able to pay you before will be hesitant to borrow again from you.
 
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