Watch only what is in front of you

If you are driving and more concerned about what's behind you than what is in front of you it won't be long before you crash. If in life you are always thinking and focussing on what happened in your past, of what could have happened, or on what you think should have happened, then you shall be missing out on the pleasures that only the present can offer. There is a big difference in watching someone eat a bar of chocolate on a TV ad, from actually eating in yourself. If you do not live in the present , then your life is just a big Tv ad with everything always out of your grasp. You are shown the potential but you can never have it in your hand as you are not in the present to enjoy it. The past and future are just advertisements and you will need to be in the present time to buy and enjoy anything you want.

yeah i too think the same anyway thanx....for the advice...........................

Yes, that's actually true. We should think first of the present because whatever we do now, it will reflect in our future.

Very well said mallu30. Indeed it is important to live in the present. The past is a part of your life and no use living it. If you have a dark or sad past, dont bring it up or else you will never move on. Unresolved issues in the past should very well be forgotten if it doesnt help you in your present. It will only cause you hurt or pain. It doesnt hurt to plan for the future but if you are not doing anything right now, then your future will never be materialized. As one quote said, "Forget the past, live in the present, and plan for the future."

ibviously we should think about our present past is past coming for future we dont think always live at present man

yup, you are saying right.
anyway thanks for this information