This girl has ruined me.

Ride

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Ok guys, as you can tell by me asking a forum for sex and relationship advice I'm pretty lost. I have been talking on and off with this girl for almost a year now. At first I would come over every weekend and stay the whole time. We would share a fairly good sized bed yet we would sleep close together. She still considers herself single and I believe that she only wants to be friends (there is casual here and there sex and dumb shit). I have been friends with her for 3 years now but this past year we have really been talking alot more. She is open about our very close friendship but she denies anything that involves us ever doing anything more than sleeping in the same bed. In fact word got out that we were having sex and she didn't talk to me for about a month first week was ignoring me and the rest was because she got in trouble and put in kid jail "DH". I obviously have alot of feelings for her yet I'm frustrated because she constantly is flirting or trying to get with other guys and who wouldn't be mad. Last night while we were laying in bed she had instagram opened and she got a DM and when she checked her DM's I saw that she was sending nudes to people. At first I didn't really care because I never was turned down for nudes because I simply never asked, but it had me thinking about whether or not I could be in a serious relationship with her if she decided to be with me. I told her about how I was going to live in California for the whole summer which got cancelled so fml and she didn't want me to go for some reason and she looked really upset. I was supposed to go out there and possibly stay there for good with my Dad but he moved back to Ohio to make things easier. Although when I turn 20 we plan on moving back out to California and I told this to the girl this is about and she told me that I couldn't go to California, I asked her why and she said because of her. I don't know what she was trying to say maybe she wants to be together when she gets older knowing that I will always love her. Well I guess this is long enough and I know most of you won't bother to read nor reply to this but to those who take the time to help me I am very thankful.

Picture for anyone that care's.
 
Lmao you're getting played homie leave while you can.
 
Aviate said:
Lmao you're getting played homie leave while you can.
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I can't just leave her that is the thing, I've already gotten too far. I don't understand how I'm getting played but I assume I'm blind to it.
 
Aviate said:
Lmao you're getting played homie leave while you can.
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Or give her the D then leave.

For real though, seems like she is playing you. Only you can decide what to do.
 
Ride said:
I can't just leave her that is the thing, I've already gotten too far. I don't understand how I'm getting played but I assume I'm blind to it.
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If I was falling for a girl like you are and I found out she was sending nudes to some random ass niggas I would get so heated lmfao.
 
Phenom said:
Or give her the D then leave.

WinWinSituation
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That is a here and there thing man I'm going to post a few pictures so you guys can understand.

Aviate said:
If I was falling for a girl like you are and I found out she was sending nudes to some random ass niggas I would get so heated lmfao.
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I wasn't at first but I know if I asked for some I would get them. She use to send me them on snapchat but I wouldn't screenshot them and I think that's why she likes me so much we have a large level of trust.
 
If you asked for some you would get some? Congrats, you and any other dude that asks apparently. No offense, but you fell for a slut. Why do you want to be with a girl that will pass out nudes so freely and have sex with someone she doesn't even date? She's using you for emotional support and casual sex. If she cared about you, she would be adamant about being with JUST you. You need to step back and look at this realistically for what it is.
 

No girl knows another girl more than a girl

@"Sector" r
 
Be a man dude, you are better than that, If you are having feelings towards this girl and she isnt feeling the same way there isn't much you can do. I would call it off, its the only way she can truly decide if she wants you or not. Best of luck!
 
C'mon man she's denying you! Also, if she didn't talk to you after a rumor she doesn't seem mature enough. Are you saying it's okay for her to send guy nudes because she would send you some? LEAVE HER no matter how hard it is for you.
 
Sounds horrible, but she looks like one of those bait girls (that would send nudes to anyone...)

I feel you though bro, she is playing mind games. I hope this gets resolved.
 
She is playing you so hard. She doesn't seem like she's mature enough to get into a relationship with imo
 
Living in my own world
Didn't understand
That anything can happen
When you take a chance
I never believed in
What I couldn't see
I never opened my heart (ooh)
To all the possibilities (ooh)
I know that something has changed
Never felt this way
And right here tonight

This could be the start
Of something new
It feels so right
To be here with you (ooh)
And now looking in your eyes
I feel in my heart (feel in my heart)
The start of something new

Now who'd of ever thought that (ooh)
We'd both be here tonight (ooh yeah)
And the world looks so much brighter (brighter)
With you by my side
I know that something has changed
Never felt this way
I know it for real

This could be the start
Of something new
It feels so right
To be here with you (ooh)
And now looking in your eyes
I feel in my heart
The start of something new

I never knew that it could happen
Till it happened to me
I didn't know it before
But now it's easy to see

It's the start
Of something new
It feels so right
To be here with you (ooh)
And now looking in your eyes
I feel in my heart

That it's the start
Of something new
It feels so right (so right)
To be here with you (ooh)
And now looking in your eyes
I feel in my heart
The start of something new
Start of something new
The start of something new
 
Look brother. This is the type of girl I personally would not get involved with sexually or emotionally. The fact that she sends nudes to numerous guys would turn me off alone. Meet some other nice girl man. One that doesnt snoop around flirtin and shit. Not trying to be an asshole but this girl is just bringing you down like a tone of bricks.
 
She's probably doing the same to every other guy she's talking to.
Move on, drop her, find somebody else. You're just going to end up hurt if you continue to develop feelings for her. She's just playing you, using you for emotional support and she's enjoying all of it. That whole part about California is just her playing with your emotions because she knows that you like her.
You just need to put her aside, no matter how hard it is.
Find somebody who treats you how you want to be treated, not who uses you and then dumps you when you're not needed.
 
Mist. said:
OP, can I get her instagram?

Thanks my dude
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lmfao, you can find it pretty easy if you just figure out my instagram.
 
Bros before Hoes
Junk before Trunk
Balls before Dolls
Compadres before I sleep with two Madres
Brad Pitt before Brad Clit
These nuts before skinny sluts
Masterbate before I ask her to date
Beef stew before watching The View
Male erection before One Direction
Mario and Luigi before Thelma and Laweezie
Bert and Ernie before Squirt and Spermy
Man purses before regular purses
Sports before genital warts
John Madden before Jasmine from Aladdin.
 
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