think is this..

This is only example...imagine you can't have baby in the future are you open minded for some option like,adoption?
i know this is the hard part of a women that she cannot give baby to her husband but that is reality it can happen to everybody even celebrities,right?so the question is,you will try also to adopt if needed?

for me yes i will adopt also just in case there is no chance for me to have my own baby as long as my husband like it too. it doesn't matter if that child is not our origin.

Well i will take good care of my child even though she/he is not real child at all. Because i care for everything and i love kids.

Yes i was always thinking to adopt children from developping countries but not because i am sterile (i am not) but because i want to help those children who have probably suffered of poverty and want a decent life.

Sometimes people confuse facts and opinions in adoption. There are certain absolute truths in adoption. However, there are also many differing opinions about various issues. Knowing the difference between the two is important when discussing adoption.

Separating fact from opinion can often be complicated, and not that easy to do. For instance, whether adoption is a positive or negative experience is a matter of opinion. Adoption serves some people well. Others, it may adversely affect their lives forever and contain no seemingly positive aspects.

Some people believe that growing up as an adopted child is identical to growing up as a biological child. Others believe that certain problems are inherent in growing up as an adult person. There are conflicting studies which support both theories. However, there is no universal truth.
Another example of facts vs. opinions issue is which type of adoption is best – open or closed. Although there is some corroborating evidence to support each option, which type of adoption serves children and their parents the best is subjective, a matter of opinion. What people deciding on which type of adoption must do is weigh their choices and base their decision on the best available information.

Many people confuse facts and opinions in adoption and are thoroughly convinced that their opinions are indeed proven facts. However, in adoption, so much is subjective, and is hard to prove. Another complicating factor is that “one size fits all,” does not always work in adoption. However, there is also a trend in adoption to want to eliminate all rules and allow too much latitude. Some hard fast rules and guidelines do need to be firm with few, if any exceptions allowed.

There is a great deal of heated argument at times trying to determine which rules make sense, and which do not. Like anything else in life, there is a delicate balance that works best. Although there needs to be some room for different situations, certain practices should never occur. But, that is a whole other post, right?

Ya if the baby was not possible with us. I would surely adopt a baby who is helpless and living a miserable life. I would educate, and provide all the happiness he wished . Ya adoption can change any child's life and yours too.

For me i will not adopt any other child coz i dont like that,but i can help those child who need the helps,better to have own child.

Why not, i'm open to that option. But only if my husband wants it too. There's nothing wrong with that. I may also help the child who needs my care and affection.

Why not, i'm open to that option. But only if my husband wants it too. There's nothing wrong with that. I may also help the child who needs my care and affection.

It is said that when a mother gives birth to a child , she is stoic and has no feeling for the child. It is only after she feeds him and looks after him for a while that the bond begins to develop. Even then the stress sometimes is so great that the mothers get cranky and bitter while dealing with their child. Same should be true for the adopted child as well. After sometime child is just your child . It does not matter whether it is adopted or biological.

It is said that when a mother gives birth to a child , she is stoic and has no feeling for the child. It is only after she feeds him and looks after him for a while that the bond begins to develop. Even then the stress sometimes is so great that the mothers get cranky and bitter while dealing with their child. Same should be true for the adopted child as well. After sometime child is just your child . It does not matter whether it is adopted or biological.