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Weep said:
Found out my girlfriend is pregnant. We are only 16. My life now blows.


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Abortion , adoption agency's , or raise the child. I'm sure there are options just stay calm and chive on.

Both of you need to address it to your parents and think about the right decision before making any moves speak to an adult.

I also advice to take more than 1 pregnancy test and don't buy the cheap ones spend the extra money for the right results just in case.
 
Weep said:
Abortion and adoption are out of the question due to her religion or whatever. So we have to raise it. Parents already know. My life is fucked up.


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You should have wore a rain coat lesson learned.
Not the end of the world happens to a lot of people.
 
Weep said:
I know it is my fault but I've been thinking about leaving her.


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That ain't going to happen that's for sure. Just make sure you don't bail on your kid because I don't need to see you on Jerry springer any time soon.
 
That was a choice you made when you had sexual intercourse with your girlfriend. I don't understand why you wouldn't use a condom? It's common sense, I find it really hard to believe people don't do this. After all the warnings you see, girls getting pregnant at a young age yet you still choose not to wear a condom. How hard is it to explain?

Anyway, this happens to a lot of people and you just need to focus on raising your child and living your life normally, do well in school and pay attention to your girlfriend, don't leave her or do anything stupid.
 
Weep said:
I love her to death I just don't know what to do.


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* Love * at 16 can mean many things you haven't lived long enough or experience enough of life to really know what it means.

Just talk it out with your parents you won't really get far on the forum with this.
 
Take 1 more pregnancy test to confirm the results.

And don't leave her as it will cause a chain reaction, her life will be fucked up, having to raise a child by herself, and her child wil also be affected.
Everything will eventually turn out to be okay.
 
Weep said:
Fear I've been with this girl for 1 and a half years. She is the one no question.


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You just said you're thinking about leaving her but now "she's the one"? Your sending me mixed signals, your really confused and I can tell. Just hope for the best, you wont receive too much help from an online forum.
 
Weep said:
Fear I've been with this girl for 1 and a half years. She is the one no question.


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Then you.
1. Wouldn't be thinking of leaving her.
2. Be freaking out about a baby if you really ( Loved ) her.

I been through all this I'm almost 9 years older than you trust me.
Talk to your parents and figure it out coming on here and doing this won't help.
 
Everything will sort itself out, focus on your education and help raise the child, everything will be okay.
 
Weep said:
Abortion and adoption are out of the question due to her religion or whatever. So we have to raise it. Parents already know. My life is fucked up.


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What kind of religion is she that doesn't allow adoption? From what I know, most, if not all religions support adoption...
 
Kirby said:
What kind of religion is she that doesn't allow adoption? From what I know, most if not all religions support adoption...
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I assume she is a follower of Christianity and her parents are strictly religious.
 
Weep said:
Abortion and adoption are out of the question due to her religion or whatever. So we have to raise it. Parents already know. My life is fucked up.


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Abortion not being an option is reasonable, but if her religion accepts having sex before marriage, it should accept adoption.

Your life is ruined, but yet you failed to use the necessities to prevent this from happening? One word: Contraceptives.

You have put the ink into nature's 3D printer and now most relinquish the consequences.

You're thinking of leaving the potential mother of your child? You're just another sorry excuse for a man. I'm not going to show any mercy. You got yourself into this predicament, and she shouldn't have to be a single mother because the man that got her pregnant isn't man enough to raise his own child. If you plan on raising the child, buck up and get a job so you can afford diapers. You're not alone. There are thousands of young teens in this predicament.
 
What you should do is make sure she's aware of all of her options. She needs to know she does have options. You have to support whatever she decides. Don't leave her. That's just wrong.
 
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