please help.

This girl and I have been talking for awhile, and she told me no matter what, don't let me go, whether i get depressed etc, well shes being consistant on leaving, and this one actually hurt me, a lot, i really don't have anyone to go to so i'm hoping that maybe one of the people from my forum family can help, tell me what to do. Shes on and off consistantly, she loves me one second, and next she just can't do it anymore, shes really one of the most beautiful girls i've ever witnessed in my entire life, and i promised myself I wouldn't let this slip away. So please if anyone can help me, that would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks,  Heaven

Something of this happened to me recently and we ended up breaking up and it was bad at first but then u realize she's just one girl

BasedGod said:

Something of this happened to me recently and we ended up breaking up and it was bad at first but then u realize she's just one girl

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Ever think she could be the girl, the one you'd want to get old with.

By the way you explained it, it doesn't seem like it is working out.
She hates you and loves you? That right there is clearly a sign.
If she is acting sketchy, etc. and makes you feel down, don't hang with her anymore.
Only have things in your life that make you feel happy and proud.
She may be beautiful, but if that is the only thing you're holding on to, it is not worth it.
It's hard, I understand, but hopefully this gave you some state of mind.
Hopefully I could help.
Best of luck!
-Gym

You gotta ask yourself first, then her; Is this going to work? Where do you see us in a year?

Heaven said:

Ever think she could be the girl, the one you'd want to get old with.

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Yeah honestly we even talked about like living together and other shit so it was pretty disappointing and sad for a good while after the break up.  But I moved on and feel much better because she was holding me back from being happy and caused problems even though sometimes she was great and was really beautiful. Of course afterwards she tried making me jealous but getting a new boyfriend and flirting with my best friends but they don't like her and shut her down and yeah u just gotta talk to someone I guess. Try working it out with her which is what I tried doing. If u two break up it is for the best. 

BasedGod said:

Yeah honestly we even talked about like living together and other shit so it was pretty disappointing and sad for a good while after the break up.  But I moved on and feel much better because she was holding me back from being happy and caused problems even though sometimes she was great and was really beautiful. Of course afterwards she tried making me jealous but getting a new boyfriend and flirting with my best friends but they don't like her and shut her down and yeah u just gotta talk to someone I guess. Try working it out with her which is what I tried doing. If u two break up it is for the best. 

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I haven't cried like for a long to, espe about a girl, its brutal, i wouldn't make my worst enemy go through what im going through right now, this hit me in the worst way possible.

Heaven said:

I haven't cried like for a long to, espe about a girl, its brutal, i wouldn't make my worst enemy go through what im going through right now, this hit me in the worst way possible.

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It'll get better dude honestly just give it time and you'll realize it yourself. You don't need someone like that. I felt like u do trust me but I'm here now better than I was then with her

This is the same exact thing that just happened to me. Just said my final goodbye 24 minutes ago. What a coincidence.

But yeah. It's not worth it to like someone who goes back and forth like that.

really

I wish I could get that far with a girl man LOL, but nah, honestly is pretty simple what to do here, tell her how you feel and just try not to fuck things up and if everything goes wrong its not meant to be.

Sorry to sound harsh but if it's not working out you should end it, it sounds as though she is not fully committed (considering she loves you one minute then hates you the next), this is not a good sign and can progressively get worse over time. The best thing you can do is talk to her. Voice your concerns. Most people would shy away from this in fear of repercussions, but if things remain unsaid then they may never change. You may want to hold onto her because she is beautiful, but love and life aren't all about looks, and if she isn't sure at this time, with such persistent mood swings, she may not be the one my friend. As the old saying goes, there is plenty more fish in the sea', it always hurts at first, but you WILL get over it. I don't even believe in there being a 'one', I believe we have the ability to fall in love easily with almost anyone, it's all abut timing and circumstance, and, of course, attraction. I hope it all works out for you either way!