My Life going downhill, terrible luck, and thankfulness

helsaber

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I'm just going to cut to the chase and explain why i've been so absent as of recently.

Last October this woman put a false accusation on my brother and mother and now they could be facing prison time when they're innocent and not guilty. They're also trying to drag my grandma in. The trial is October and ever since then my family has been split apart, i've been struggling extremely hard.. just being able to graduate highschool by the tip of my tongue (without getting all my credits unfortunately) and i am just going through hell.

My parents have also been seperated since 2005.

Last week Friday, my mom picked me and my girlfriend up from spending time at her house for a bit, then she got arrested again because police are trying to take down and ruin an innocent family over one accusation that has no evidence to back it up what so ever. Monday, she was on her way with my grandma, my grandmas friend and her friend who is an old man, someone thought they could make a fast left turn into a plaza so he sped up and he crashed right into the left side of my moms car while she was driving. No one was severely injured thank god, but my mom had to get staples in her head.

Literally yesterday, we got a rental car to drive temporaraly and we werent even going to keep it for long because we were afraid of being on the road now. We decide to turn into a coffee shop plaza so my mom could use the rest room. Two lanes were stopped for my mom to turn, she had the right of way.. we turn, and out of no where, in the BUS LANE, some asian guy with his girlfriend comes speeding and crashes right into my side. If i didnt see it at the corner of my eye, dear God.. but anyway im alive and well. It's funny because apparently my mom might be at fault.. But i realize now how serious this world is, people will make mistakes and not care because you could wake up one morning and not realize it might just be your last day. I can still see the Jeep coming towards me.. I'm sorry i just feel like i need somewhere to vent and this is like a home to me and you're all family like i always say. But yes that is why i have been absent.

Please, and i know alot of you will look at this.. maybe take it in for a bit, but my life is going absolutely downhill.. My brother was actually going to be a singer, he worked with Danny Fernandes who was at my house constantly (Canadian based Singer, Cousin of Shawn Desmond and Tyler Medeiros) and this all happened as soon as his first song made it on the radio. But what i'm trying to say is live everyday like its your last. Love your family because they'll be with you through alot even though i've lost some..

I wish you all nothing but best wishes.
 
I don't know what to say man, I'm very sorry for what happened there.
But if that woman who accussed you has no evidence, how is she winning?
 
Wow dude, you're going through some tough shit right now, but you gotta keep your chin up, and your back straight. You AND your family will pull through this, my prayers go out to you
 
She's not winning. They keep arresting them because the cops themselves are trying to find evidence, she hasn't presented any so far and has no reason too as we're innocent.
 
Damn dude, sorry to hear that you're going through some shit right now. I have court on the 3rd of October for two Minor in Possession of Tobacco tickets and one Minor in Possession of Alcohol ticket, then I have court again some time later in October for a Possession of Spice Paraphernalia. The spice thing isn't even mine either... Some asshole left it in my car.
 
What country are you from? Cause if the police keep arresting her with no evidence she should be able to get a lawyer and take control and without a warrant not get arrested.
 
What exactly is she being accused of?
 
Fucked up life,too much cops around,stop torrenting.
Hope things get better dude.

Everything happens for a reason,god is a good man
 
Love you all, thanks for the support. Aaron i constantly say everything happens for a reason and God's gonna pull me through this. Keeping a positive head is the best thing anyone can do and i'm doing exactly that. I'm also from Canada btw.
 
helsaber said:
Love you all, thanks for the support. Aaron i constantly say everything happens for a reason and God's gonna pull me through this. Keeping a positive head is the best thing anyone can do and i'm doing exactly that. I'm also from Canada btw.

Can't do shit to you then. If they have no evidence tell them to talk to your lawyer and get a arrest warrant else she doesn't need to do anything.
 
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