memories

are the memories... good? bad? It is good to remember what cute and not remember the bad? as it manages to make first and not the latter? can someone answer me these preguntras?

davidiaz25 said:

are the memories... good? bad? It is good to remember what cute and not remember the bad? as it manages to make first and not the latter? can someone answer me these preguntras?

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memories are so good, you have to follow them, always with them.
They are nostalgic rich of your past which come to the fore
day after day
and makes one feel good about all that happened.
memories are always for me in my mind.

All memories are not good and you cant say that all memories are bad too. Some memories give good felling of the past while some memories make you feel sad. so memories are both bad and good as far as i think

Memories are fragments of the past /yesterdays.
memories are good to remember the sweet memories with our loved ones.
Remembering good times will always bring us back to those moments that we share with our loved ones,friends and beloved.

in psychology in frustrated person they always want to remember only the good memories. but remember in that bad memories we can change or correct our mistakes.

I was sitting outside the other day, just enjoying nature; and it made me think....
What are memories?
How can we know if our memories are accurate or even real?
When we have an experience of something, our perception changes that experience to fit our needs and how we perceived it at the time, our current emotional state at that time, and the events in our past alter that perception….etc…(so many variables)
How can anyone really know if those things really happened? When all we have is the memory.
We have a memory of an experience.
It made me think of my grandmother. She remembers almost everything that has happened to her in her life. (lol….mostly about what nice restaurants she went to, and how the food was divine… she’s funny like that) But, she has these memories of things, and over time those memories change… I don’t why our memories change, or subtly alter themselves to fit our needs. (most perplexing) She has memories of my grandfather that are not completely accurate; now I’m sure she remembers them the way she wants too.
Which brings me to the question, how can we rely on our memories if we can alter them to fit our needs?
We cannot prove that a memory happened; we just have this “information” stored in our brain. Yes, we might have a picture or a souvenir of the memory, but what does that really mean?
We can relay a memory to someone, maybe experience it with someone; but even if someone experienced something with you, that memory will be different from yours. So is one memory more accurate than another?
How do we know that ‘we’ create these memories and they didn’t get (excuse the phrase) downloaded by a universal consciousness?
Every day we have new memories. Could it be that we get downloaded (I use the term lightly) daily by this universal consciousness?
Ok if I don’t stop now… I’m going to rattle on and on…
So what do you think?