Me and My Mom..

Yuuki

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A bunch of shit is going on with me and my mom right now..​
First off it starts with me and my stepdad fighting yesterday, I got up early in the morning​
to go eat with my friends before school, and then he said I couldn't go because I didn't do the dishes when I did them the first day I got there.​
So we got into a huge argument and we said some pretty nasty things. So then I said, Maybe it's best if I go live with my dad. And he said he didn't give a fuck at all, and then called me a bitch. I then proceeded to cry tears of anger, then I hit him and went to my room. I then got all my clothes, electronics, and chargers. And took my little brother with me to my dads. I then had an emotional break-down in my car with my brother. I then just bursted into tears not being able to think straight. I just started screaming and crying. My brother started to cry as he was scared of what was happening to me. I then pulled over, and calmed down. Later that day me and my mom got into a argument and she called me a brat and shit. So I told her I didn't like him and she said he was a big part of our lives and I said that he is a big part of your life, not mine. And she got upset. So then I stay with my dad that night.. Everything is fine. Later that night, my stepdad's Mom had a heart attack. Out of pity I sent him a message saying I was sorry for that morning and I was praying for his mom. ​
No answer.​
Next day, everything is fine and I'm doing okay. My Mom then texts me saying to call her. I called her from work and she just starts yelling at me telling me how much of a bad son I am to her and I'm a terrible person. I then told her It's either me or her boyfriend. And she chose her boyfriend. So yeah.. That's all for right now.. I will update it as more shit happens which I'm sure it will..​

4:14 PM 1/9/2015: So you want to live with your dad?​
4:18 PM 1/9/2015: Thanks for making me feel like the worst mom in the world..​

4:18 PM 1/9/2015 (Me): Thanks for making me cry. And thanks for making me feel unloved. Bye.​

I really need some emotional support right now guys, it's getting worse and going downhill for me..​
 
Terrible to hear.
If she chose her boyfriend over you, keep it that way.
My parents have been arguing and threatening divorce for months now, it's hard to handle.
stay in there, your fam loves you.
stay up
 
Gym said:
Terrible to hear.
If she chose her boyfriend over you, keep it that way.
My parents have been arguing and threatening divorce for months now, it's hard to handle.
stay in there, your fam loves you.
stay up
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My parents have been divorced for 7 years. 
 
Damn, sorry to hear this. Shit's sad. Idk what I'd do without my mom, my parents are already divorced. Hope everything gets better.
 
Critical said:
Damn, sorry to hear this. Shit's sad. Idk what I'd do without my mom, my parents are already divorced. Hope everything gets better.
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My parents are divorced also. Just something this bad has never happened.
 
Avoid your mother for a couple days and stay with your dad. If she calls you, ignore it.
Wait a couple days, call her.
 
I hope you sort things out man. we all here for you
 
I have learned from my parents divorce that my dad is much more rational and my mom is very manipulative similar to how your mom says, "you make me feel like the worst mom in the world."

I say time will figure it out if you just stay at your dads until tempers simmer down.
 
Coming from a non bias point of view: from your point of view it's shit. She is choosing her boyfriend over Her son, over blood. Which someone people would think is wrong.


From her point of view: maybe she thinks you're older enough; and wants to make herself happy and have a relationship with this guy. She's putting Her own happiness in front of you, but think she's put you in front of everything for im guessing 18+ years (bcos driving) and maybe she wants to put her self in front now?

I guess just go with whatever you feel. We're all her for you no matter what, good luck dude and best wishes be with you.
 
I am only 16, and this isn't the first time she has done this.

Thanks guys.

@Doom
@fade
@Chapter
 
I'm about to go deep as fuck right now... A couple of years ago I was living with my mom and I caught her with lets just say a very close friend of our family. She tried to burn it into my brain that the person I saw was me just hallucinated and shit like that. Eventually cops got involved and I was forced
1. Leave my school that I have been at for 11 years of my life.
2. I had to go to public school (I was at a private school before.)
3. Watch my own brothers not know what is going on leave our school and everything for what they think is no reason.


I thought my life was ruined, and it actually was for a bit. I could never trust her again.


I am not gonna say all that "Everything will be okay." stuff because some aspects it won't. You will get through it though. Whatever God you believe in or whatever, just keep your priorities straight and make your brother feel comfortable.

Nothing is the same with my Mom, I don't really see her as a mother anymore but that's me.

Your mother will always love you. No matter what. It my seem like she doesn't but if she has stuck with you all this way she does care about you.

I'm always here if you need anything, hope stuff gets better.
 
Thanks Braden, I'm sorry to hear what happened to you and your mom as well.
 
Sorry to hear this dude,my mom tells me literally everyday reminding me how worthless I am.
If you need anything I'm here for you. Just kik me.
 
Dying said:
Sorry to hear this dude,my mom tells me literally everyday reminding me how worthless I am.
If you need anything I'm here for you. Just kik me.
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Thanks for the support man, I'll probably text you later.
 
Triad said:
Thanks for the support man, I'll probably text you later.
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Anything to help bro, and okay I'll be on all day so.
 
Dying said:
Anything to help bro, and okay I'll be on all day so.
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Alright, well I'm at work at the moment so yeah. I'll contact you soon. Thanks man.
 
If you need anything man feel free to message me, I have been in that situation before. my kik:1234567 Hope stuff gets better for you.
 
Sarcasm said:
If you need anything man feel free to message me, I have been in that situation before.  my kik:1234567   Hope stuff gets better for you.
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Thanks man, I will be sure to message you in a bit.
 
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