I will write this short as I can. Pretty much I date a girl who has a baby father she don't wanna be with him, but the only way she can have a job is if he take the kids for a while. He say he wont take the kids back unless she come back to be with him. So what should I do she loves me and don't wanna leave but the kids are there?Cabbage said:Well, I'd have to know more to the story to make a good judgement, but I would choose the one who loves you.