Love Advice ???

Pheonix

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Ok so im in abit of a situation, there is a girl which i Really like... She Really likes me too, but the problem is my Good friend is going out with her atm.. there not really "doing" much atm and its not serious.. she doesnt want to leave untill she is sure she wants me.. she said i gotta convince her that im better than him.. The other guy is really weak and thin as a stick, i have Quite abit of muscle and she really likes that in me

1 - What should i do?

2 - Any other advice :S?

Dont make stupid comments like, Go beat the shit outa him or anything -.-
 
Just give her time to break up with him and be with you, dont force her into anything
 
Brownieee said:
Just give her time to break up with him and be with you, dont force her into anything
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yeh thats probbaly what im doing :S and Brownieee Do i know you o.0?? i think i know you.. u got a ps3? name is like x-BrOwNi
 
Nope got an xbox and im 'multiply' brother >.> just getting started on rune gear, its pretty good so far
 
Yeh And another problem is ive done shit with her before.. Then it got awkward because we wernt together.. so i jst really wana go out with her and do what we did before :S

jst hard with this other guy in the way
 
just tell her what you think about the whole situation and there just leave it there and/or see what she says imo
 
Brownieee said:
just tell her what you think about the whole situation and there just leave it there and/or see what she says imo
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talked about it all already shes jst confused atm..

Bump now that its re-opened, this time AGW and Carbon dont post here please.
 
I'm not really sure what to do in this situation, probably best to wait it out like @[Brownieee] said.
 
Well, you are in a bit of a predicament. There's either a girl friend that could last a couple of weeks or a friend that could last a lifetime. You choose.
 
Hang out with her and prove that you like her, talk to her a lot, make her feel loved and cared for.
Then slowly talk her into the whole "I kinda like you...(in a deeper meaning of like)" conversation, etc.
Then just go for it, just keep talking to her and making her feel comfortable with you
 
If she likes you a lot she should just go out with you. If she doesn't know, in the future you'll break up because she has to have proof you're better, but You need to be yourself, which she might not be 100% about xo therefore won't work forever. Let her do something about the other guy if she really likes you. Depends if you want a long term relationship.
 
shes with your good friend? are you some sort of cunt?
 
Tell her you can supply drugs, erm.... stimulants that make you feel soo much better Sure she'll be a leech at first, but hey, you got the girl.
 
Talk to her and hangout with her a bunch, then halt.
Let her miss you.
 
michaelkr1 said:
I'm with Famous. Don't date your friends Ex. Its wrong.
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fuck that, you live once.
OP, do whatever your heart makes you do.
 

umm the girls actually with his mate right now?

well in the long run when you and this girl break up and realise you have no friends, wouldnt be a good feeling ay
 
Famous™ said:
shes with your good friend? are you some sort of c*nt?
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i was with her for 2 years, we got really close, i went on holiday for 2 months,and come back and hes with her now, she is a "Really" good friend of mine now.. She didnt leave me for him but like i kinda left her when i went on holiday :/ i shouldnt of done it i know... but I actually told my friend not to try it because i want her back (he did it anyways)

Famous he was the asshole in this case, not me.. i jst want her back :S

i dont have to proove im better but if i do then it jst makes it easier.. I havent hung out with her for a while, but yesterday when we did we spent like 4 hours alone and her bf was like right there getting Really Jelous.. Good thing is i got like 19kg on him so he cant do shit.


and hes not really That good of a friend anymore, im not gona see him that much after some things that happend + different schools now
 
Oh well you should have said that in the first post, considering them circumstances, go for it, hes the prick
 
Famous™ said:
Oh well you should have said that in the first post, considering them circumstances, go for it, hes the prick
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Yeh i understand where your coming from
 
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