Is happiness possible with a man or a woman who is not free?

arnelia

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I still remember when i was in college i have a friend already married.but she's also in love with the other man who also committed.i know that their love is forbidden but what they do,they also love each other even in a wrong way. so my question is, happiness possible with a man or a woman who is not free?
 
I think answer of this question may vary from country to country because culture of every country is different. Now i took this situation in reference of my country "India". In India bonding in society and family are very tight. We are very responsible for our family and society. So this type of relationship never bring happiness in any one's life in India.
 

My answer to your question is yes. But their happiness is just going to be temporary because at the end of the day, both of them would have to go back to where they belong, and that's their respective families. If they really want to be happy together forever then they have to set free themselves from the people whose a hindrance to their happiness, there's divorce and there's annulment proceeding and other legal remedies to set themselves free.
 
in my opinion it's yes, maybe your friend find her happiness to that guy and i agree with you that it is forbidden. Maybe your friend need attention and time that she didn't see on her behalf that's why she did that thing. Most of the cases on cheating issue in married life quality time and communication are the main problem of the couple but this issue can be solve if both of them try talk and bring back the reason why they got married and ask God to guide their family and relationship to become more stronger maybe they will also achieve happiness and then they didn't find happiness to other.
 

I don't think that there is happiness with that kind of situation before. Based from experience, I also fell in love with a man who is committed to his family though they are not married they already have a child. So, I basically fought back my feelings but unfortunately, I was so weak that I went with him and he did tell me that he also felt the same. At that time, it realized that it was not complete happiness. Those were just short-lived ones. It served as my eye-opener that I should not be messing with married man or the like. It will not give me complete happiness and right life!
 
With the scenario that you wrote here,I can see that they are happy because they love each other and do all the possible way to love each other,even in the wrong way.
But generally,it's not happiness because they are hiding their love and they can never be together forever..unless they will find legal ways to make their love come to reality without breaking any law.
 
Look the friendship or happiness is not the name of just one relation. The happiness can be derived a lot of ways and they need not be only the way most people think they are. We can have fun without really being involved and physical, for me pure happiness is always possible in every possible way. .
 
it is really forbidden to fall in love with a committed man. what you will have will just be temporary..at first, you'll think that you made the right choice because of the feeling it will give you but as time goes by you'll realize that you made a big mistake. and always remember that if you don't want to do to you, don't do it.
 
I think that is not fair for couples but we can't do nothing if we have life that we have struggle and if we have struggle that we are busy but not too much busy is also good for good relatioship.
 

I think it is the story of every nation and all the people are taking to different situations in different way, they bond are so compasionate with their dear and near ones. Of course they are resposive to thier duties and society too. It brings social harmony.
 
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