I'm actually so fucking done.

Michael

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Why are females so frustrating? I will absolutely never understand. Love sucks.

Everything is going perfect then I get ignored for absolutely no reason? We make a bunch of plans and she "doesn't want to go" on the day? We've had a thing for each other and she's just absolutely ruined me in every fucking way possible. I've known this girl for about 3 years and I was friendzoned a few times but I was able to get out of it. What do females want? I swear to God they're all the devil's minions.

I love her so much, I'd give my life for her without hesitation but she always seems to put me second when I put her first. When I put 110% she puts 40%. When I'm on the phone to her at 3:00am when she's crying her heart out, the next day I don't exist. I feel like I'm giving her everything and she's just walking away with it. Life is unfair.
 

My dad always told me if your involved in women son you will always have problems, if he gets reincarnated he will come back as a gay farmer pmsl, he has been married 42 yrs, how old is she Michael may I ask?
 
I can relate bro, I met this girl on the begining of the school year and I thought she was the one. We would talk and Text all the time, I went out of my way to talk to her 110% just like you. I would say we had a thing for about a month, we would text till like 1am I would say I'm tired or my phones about to die she would say please don't go find a charger don't leave me. Then I was going to ask her out but she just never gives any attention to me anymore and then my x best friend fucking asks her out and she said yea. You don't know how pisted I was ! Sorry is grammer is bad I'm on my phone
 
Had the same problem with this girl. Told me all her problems, and she sometimes wanted to hang out, but when we did she would ignore me or talk to other guys. Three words, FUCK THAT BITCH. Just stop talking to her for awhile. She'll come running. Make yourself seem desirable to her and talk to other girls.
 
Welcome to the real world, i gave up when i was about 15. Only started putting in effort when they actually wanted to make plans with me. Just play it cool and don't come on to strong, always worked for me.
 
Hostage said:
My dad always told me if your involved in women son you will always have problems, if he gets reincarnated he will come back as a gay farmer pmsl, he has been married 42 yrs, how old is she Michael may I ask?
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Same age as me, bro.



I know how you feel, trust me. It's absolute bullshit bro. Same as me, we'd talk and text, more in real life though and it was perfect.


Hmm, doesn't seem half bad but I am not the type to try to get her jealous or make myself seem desirable. Any tips?

Chill said:
Welcome to the real world, i gave up when i was about 15. Only started putting in effort when they actually wanted to make plans with me. Just play it cool and don't come on to strong, always worked for me.
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What do you mean by play it cool and not coming on to strong?
 
Michael said:
What do you mean by play it cool and not coming on to strong?
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You're only young, you can't experience love until you're hurt by someone you've been with for an X amount of time. Flings don't count.
 
Chill said:
You're only young, you can't experience love until you're hurt by someone you've been with for an X amount of time. Flings don't count.
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I dislike when people older than me state that we don't know what love is, etc. I agree. Half of my generation can go fuck themselves because they're either all whores or future whores. I know where you're coming from because I know who you were with and shit but this girl bro, I do love her. I've been hurt, toyed with, everything you can imagine with this one. I can't get over her no matter what and it's not me being clingy, I legitimately love her and all that cute shit.
 

You knew who I was with? Meaning I "was" with Emily? Or do you know about my previous relationships?
 
Chill said:
You knew who I was with? Meaning I "was" with Emily? Or do you know about my previous relationships?
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I was referring to Emily
 
Michael said:
I was referring to Emily
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I'm still with her... Everyone goes through rough patches dude, just gotta work through them. If it's meant to be then it's meant to be.

Not that I believe in that shit, you both have to work together and see if things can be fixed in a relationship. One person can't save humanity, you know?

Don't beat yourself up over it, if she's not interested then it's heart broken. Sorry broseph.
 
Michael I'm sorry for what has happened this girl that I used to talk to did the same thing. We made plans "she couldn't go" but she would upload pictures of her on dates with her girls. We've been talking for months; and her friends told me to ask her out because she'll say yes. That little devil rejected me and went out with one of my friends. I've spent the most amount of money on her, stayed up the whole night while she cries on the other line, everything you can think about. Hopefully this new girl isn't like this. Just try and shrug it off and the old cliche saying "there are other fish in the sea"
 

This happens to a lot of people so therefore, in theory it's a false saying.

 
Life's a bitch, and then you die man. Make the best of what you can.
 
As a great man once said " bitches be trpippin" you can do better I'm sure.
 
Well one very historical and intelligent man said once, "Love No Thotties." Go with this saying and make it your motto. You'll never have a problem with girls again.
 
I know what you mean, we'll not me but my girl does cause I do the same thing to her. Though today I'm going to see her after she gets out of school, cause and I quote "I need your dick".
 
Okay, as someone who has taken a college psychology class, I might be able to help. If she has experienced some type heartbreak before, she will hesitate to try to become too attached. She would be afraid to give you her heart, in fear that you will crush it. (Not saying you will, just that this is a general fear). She is always gonna take that one step backward after getting too close which she seems to be doing.
You told us that she cried until 3 am? That's huge. She's comfortable with you enough to do that. The topic she was crying about, on the other hand, hopefully isn't about another guy. Next day she ignored you. This isn't as bad as it may seem. The ignorance may just be a sign of shyness. She just showed you her most intense emotions. What you should have done in this situation was go up to her, look her in the eyes, and just tell her "hi". It would have shown that you truly care about her, and it would have shown that she can cry with you around any time. Edit: i'm assuming you actually see her on regular basis.
My guess is she really likes you, and doesn't want to fall in love with you. Yet. I'm telling you give it time, do NOT push her into doing things she doesn't want to do. I believe it will work out eventually. If you want to give me more information on the situation, I'll do my best to help you out.
PS: I won't be like everyone else and say "Forget her. Don't trust sluts. I know how you feel, and what you mean." Nobody knows how you feel or what you truly mean because your emotions for every situation are unique to you. @Michael
 

If you're having girl problems I feel bad for you, son
I've got 99 problems but a bitch ain't one


Non-sarcastic Answer: My gf does the same. :/
 
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