I lied.

Heaven

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I've lied a lot and now it came in to play with my relationships with very close people to me, including my good friend @gunnar
I have lost them both and I'm over my head now and I have no idea what to do, I can't loose my girlfriend, shes means the entire world to me plus everything in society. And Gunnar, helped me through a lot of shit, and now this, I know I deserve this but I can't just let them go, neither can they, it just doesn't seem right, the connection of feelings with us, you just don't get what me and her had, and I lied and ruined it, and I just don't know what to do, and I honestly have no one to go to, so please, could any help me get the love of my life back, and a true genuine friend back, I've tried talking to them both, confronting what I've done, and i'm still currently working on fixing every little thing and lie of said, and to all of the people on FK who know me by my name Mack, its not really Mack, its Joel.
 
Who cares gunnar is school shooter man, but anyways hope you feel better.
 
I don't know what's going on but hopefully it gets better
 
Whatever you are lying about just come clean about everything.
By the way, completely off topic, but you may want to fix that run on sentence, very hard to read.
 
Seven said:
Whatever you are lying about just come clean about everything.
By the way, completely off topic, but you may want to fix that run on sentence, very hard to 00
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Im stressed to the fullest, i'll fix it in a bit.
 
Carson said:
Who cares gunnar is school shooter man, but anyways hope you feel better.
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I care about Gunnar, hes helped me through so much.

Monster said:
Depends how big the lie was and what it was
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there were a few, not the biggest, but enough to fuck up my head and relationship.
 
Every lie is fixable, everything can be saved, the thing is you gotta express how you feel to your girl, tell how much she truly means to you, don't just say sht you prove it, girls are won over by actions, honesty, loyalty be true. @Gunnar is a chill guy I'm sure if you have a good talk he'll understand
 
I broke the honesty, with the lies, and that's what I thought to and yeah, I hope he forgives me, hes an amazing friend.

Shift said:
Never lie to your girlfriend, it won't end well.
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I figured out the hard way, and some of the lies were before we started dating.
 
Seven said:
Whatever you are lying about just come clean about everything.
By the way, completely off topic, but you may want to fix that run on sentence, very hard to read.
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Heaven said:
I broke the honesty, with the lies, and that's what I thought to and yeah, I hope he forgives me, hes an amazing friend.
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Now that you have, break out some actions to prove to her that you don't wanna lose her.
 
Monster said:
Now that you have, break out some actions to prove to her that you don't wanna lose her.
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theirs a lot of things I've tried to do / say, and I started by going through every lie I've made, she doesn't believe I can change from a compulsive liar to the charming person we both know I can be, and I honestly do believe I can change.
 
His life, his WHOLE life, has been a giant lie.
This is something that literally cannot be fixed.
"Mack" is some fictional character that whoever this person is made up.
 
gunnar said:
His life, his WHOLE life, has been a giant lie.
This is something that literally cannot be fixed.
"Mack" is some fictional character that whoever this person is made up.
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not my whole life Gunnar, you haven`t known my whole life, i`ve never told anyone my whole life, only bits of it.
 
Just tell them an apology, but it has to be real and true.

If @gunnar doesn't accept it, then he's not a real friend. But if you had a strong friendship, he would accept straight away.

If he does accept, he's a loyal friend. Just make sure it doesn't happen.

With the girlfriend thing. Every relationship has lies, just ask for her forgiveness.
If she tells you to leave her alone. Don't, she'll just think that you don't want a second chance or forgiveness. Just tell her how much your sorry and you wouldn't lie to her anymore.

I hope everything works out for the best dude!

Keep your head held high.
 
@Heaven if she throws those lies at you, don't give in, keep fighting because she doesn't want you to stop she just can't handle it, you gotta try and try, hell I'm sure you'll manage.. Unless she seriously is dead set then idk what much there is too do.

@Gunnar he lied about who he was? Man I know your a pretty cool guy Gunnar, friendship is hard to come by, close friends are even harder, but it's your choice.
 
its done and over with, shes dead set, and gunnar, I truly have no idea.
 
If you're saying you fucked up just admit it try to fix it and if it can't try to move on and enjoy life, hope all goes well Joel
 
Ellis said:
If you're saying you fucked up just admit it try to fix it and if it can't try to move on and enjoy life, hope all goes well Joel
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I thought that might work, I tried other things but its done, time to worry about myself and fix myself, something I haven`t done in a long time.
 
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