I don't know what to do

My friend's friend that I don't know that well, we met a couple of months ago, had this conversation with me the day after all of us (about 10 friends) went mini-putting. She's leaving for Italy in a week for the entire summer so I guess the reason she told me is because she wants to get it off her back.

What should I do? I've never had someone like me, ever, or at least tell me like this. I'm in college and I'm gonna be 19 in August and she's 19 and she's in University.

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And FYI, this is also proof for idiots (cough Mike) that didn't believe I was drunk and went out clubbing that night I made that thread.

Don't "plan" to do anything, just do what you were doing.
She likes you, doesn't she? Therefore you must be doing whatever you are doing right.

Also, I love the way you have to "dumb-down" your typing/speech. I have to do it too >.<

You could tell shes really into you by the first couple responses, just try to get together with her a couple times before she leaves, see what happens.

Crysis said:

Don't "plan" to do anything, just do what you were doing.
She likes you, doesn't she? Therefore you must be doing whatever you are doing right.

Also, I love the way you have to "dumb-down" your typing/speech. I have to do it too >.<

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"Don't "plan" to do anything, just do what you were doing.
She likes you, doesn't she? Therefore you must be doing whatever you are doing right."

Ya, that's what I thought too but I just wanted to make sure. But I don't know if I like her, that's what's bothering me, and I don't want to hurt anyone by leading them on.

This all come so fast and VERY unexpected. I had no idea. I'm a very funny guy in person and I clown around a lot with whoever I'm with. So it's not like I was putting on an act.

This happened to my first girlfriend in HS. She liked me and then I got all shy and awkward and I wasn't the me she liked anymore. I can't help it. I'm going to try to be myself though.

And about the typing lmao ya I know, but wtv, sometimes I do type well on Facebook but it depends on the mood.

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Relapse said:

You could tell shes really into you by the first couple responses, just try to get together with her a couple times before she leaves, see what happens.

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I think that she doesn't want that. After all, the whole point that she told me last minute before she leaves is so that I will forget by the time she comes back. But even at that, I don't even know if I like her back. I don't know how to find out.

Solidify said:

Relapse said:

You could tell shes really into you by the first couple responses, just try to get together with her a couple times before she leaves, see what happens.

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I think that she doesn't want that. After all, the whole point that she told me last minute before she leaves is so that I will forget by the time she comes back. But even at that, I don't even know if I like her back. I don't know how to find out.

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I was just saying to go hang out with her and see if your compatible and see if you like her. Not to try to have sex, if that's what you thought I was implying. But I can say with full confidence she does like you.

Dude, get to know her and date her! This is a window of opportunity!

Solidify said:

Ya, that's what I thought too but I just wanted to make sure. But I don't know if I like her, that's what's bothering me, and I don't want to hurt anyone by leading them on.

This all come so fast and VERY unexpected. I had no idea. I'm a very funny guy in person and I clown around a lot with whoever I'm with. So it's not like I was putting on an act.

This happened to my first girlfriend in HS. She liked me and then I got all shy and awkward and I wasn't the me she liked anymore. I can't help it. I'm going to try to be myself though.

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Don't try to lead her on, I wouldn't constantly talk to her/meet her at every chance you get given nor would I suggest that if you did like her. Just lay back a bit and meet her every other week or something and see how things turn out for you, how you feel wise of course.

As for acting like yourself, don't change that. She likes you for who you are.
Carry on the good job, fella.

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Solidify said:

Relapse said:

You could tell shes really into you by the first couple responses, just try to get together with her a couple times before she leaves, see what happens.

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I think that she doesn't want that. After all, the whole point that she told me last minute before she leaves is so that I will forget by the time she comes back. But even at that, I don't even know if I like her back. I don't know how to find out.

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I was just saying to go hang out with her and see if your compatible and see if you like her. Not to try to have sex, if that's what you thought I was implying. But I can say with full confidence she does like you.

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Well I know that but I've already chilled with her and friends several times and I just never felt attracted to her. She's fun to talk to though. Why would my opinion change if I go chill with her now?

You guys type LQ-style lol.

anyway, where ever she is going, you can still speak to her on fb right?
so just continue how it goes and go from there.

nothing else you can do

Whatever you do, don't freak out and think ooooohhhh my god, a girl likes me!, then get all sweet on her and shit.
Just keep doing what you're doing, it's obviously been working.

And remember, romancing a woman is a lot like writing music. The spaces in between the sweet notes are just as important as the notes themselves.

forget it shes going to have fun in italy. if you knwo what i mean