How to deal with depression

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DEALING WITH DEPRESSION.
BY: MICHAELLL

Hey everyone, my name is Michael. The reason I am here creating this thread is for the people facing minor or major depression. It is a serious issue that needs to be resolved as it can result in suicide, self harm, etc. I have attempted to take my own life many times, I have self-harmed, I have done bad things but I have been strong & I have overcome depression.

Some of you may criticise me as I am only 14 years of age, but I have had family/relative deaths, debt, eviction, etc. I want to help as many people feel happy and enthusiastic about there lives until it comes to the point where they feel as if they are not needed anymore. I hope you enjoy this thread & I hope that people can take others' feelings into consideration.

WHAT IS DEPRESSION?
A condition of mental disturbance, typically with lack of energy and difficulty in maintaining concentration or interest in life.

WHY DO PEOPLE BECOME DEPRESSED?
Being depressed isn't by choice, it can happen by physical or emotional problems that are life-threatening. Typically, people with depression find it hard to go about their daily life activities. It affects lives.

TYPES OF DEPRESSION


    • Major Depressive Disorder
    • Dysthymic disorder
    • Psychotic depression
    • Postpartum depression
    • SAD
    • Bipolar disorder

SINGS & SYMPTOMS

  • [*]A constant feeling of sadness, anxiety, and emptiness
    [*]The person feels hopeless
    [*]Individuals can feel restless
    [*]The sufferer may experience irritability
    [*]Patients may lose interest in activities or hobbies they once enjoyed
    [*]He/she may lose interest in sex
    [*]Levels of energy feel lower, fatigue sets in
    [*]Many people with a depressive illness find it hard to concentrate, remember details, and make decisions
    [*]Sleep patterns are disturbed - the person may sleep too little or too much
    [*]Eating habits may change - he/she may either eat too much or have no appetite
    [*]Suicidal thoughts may occur - some may act on those thoughts
    [*]The sufferer may complain more of aches and pains, headaches, cramps, or digestive problems. These problems do not get better with treatment.


HELPING OTHERS​
You can save a life. Yes, save a life! All it takes is a simple "Are you okay"? The quiet person in class could have so much going on in their lives, or the girl that hangs out alone, or the person that cry's a lot. Trust me, you can help others so easily & they can feel as if they have a purpose in their lives, unless they don't take it.

DEALING WITH IT!
Be around positive people! Talk to people who make you feel happy, that make you feel safe & secure. Spend time with them, learn from them! Avoid those that make you feel neglected & worthless, stop socialising with them, lose contact with them because all they will do is bring you down until you hit rock bottom.

Reducing intake in sugar is also helpful, eat more fruits & vegetables. Eating healthy can turn your life around in a variety of positive ways! Drink plenty of water & exercise releases a natural anti-depressant in your brain which is beneficial towards you! Just go for a regular walk & trust me, it will help you! Remember, hiding your depression will only make it worse, covering it up & lying to a friend/family member is also not good, you must seek help!

Sports is also a good way to deal with it, find a sport you love & play & try your hardes to achieve your goals in this sport, run around with your mates & have a laugh! It will make you feel good, and remember, feeling bad about yourself will only make it worse, don't be a quitter, be a doer! Doing and achieving will make you feel better, and rewarding yourself for completing small goals will make you also feel good about yourself! Reward yourself with a treat, or a good movie!

Stay on track with your own life, don't be concerned about others as much as you should be concerned about yourself! You deserve happiness, you deserve to be apart of this life & live it to the absolute fullest whilst having a great time, not feeling miserable & anxious about every move you make. I believe that you can treat it with without any medications. Medications are a bad way to deal with depression. Remember that you are the pilot of your own life, don't let others take control of your own life.

MY MISSION FOR THE ONES NOT DEPRESSED!​
My mission for you, remember above how I was talking about: the guy that is quiet, the girl that is always crying, I want you to do this. If you go to school, college, university, TAFE, if you see a person that is feeling down I want you to go up to them & ask them if they're okay. Ways to start the conversation:


  • I have been feeling concerned about you lately.
    [*]Recently, I have noticed some differences in you and wondered how you are doing.

Please, one simple: "Are you okay"? can save a life, I want you to post what they answer, I want you to help them with their struggles & let them know that people actually care about their lives, just imagine it was a loved one! It can be saddening when one takes their own life, it is even worse if it is a teenager! I thank you for reading my thread, I tried to make it as short as possible with as much information as I could possibly gather. I am trying to achieve something.

I am wanting to achieve members here to feel happy about themselves, because what if people here are saddened about their lives but don't show it? What's the point of this forum if the members aren't happy with their own lives? I will always put other members before me with anything, I will help others to the best of my ability and you should too. I love all the members here, and I just wish for personal happiness for all of you, on the internet or online. If there is anyone on this forum that is feeling down, please feel free to PM me as I will help you to the best of my ability.



20 views no replies come on guys!! Give this thread some love
 
This is a good guide for people with depression. Thanks for taking the time to write this.
 
I wasn't depressed until I had to highlight your whole thread to read it. But seriously its as simple as being mentally strong and smart enough to realize people have it worse off then you and you get no where being depressed. You are what you want to be, I think it's that simple.
 



Sorry man, I forgot there were different themes!

Narc said:
This is a good guide for people with depression. Thanks for taking the time to write this.

Thanks man.. I hope I can help someone
 
Bumping this to the top.. I'd like to see others' views and comments about this!
 
I just figured I'd throw this out there. I've been depressed (maybe among other things) for as long as I can remember. I know why, I know what eats at me and its unchangeable. Instead of accepting the unchangeable, I have accepted the sadness. Sometimes I like it. I like being sad. Some have referred to it as "Sweet melancholy"

Im trying to understand it. Maybe its all i've ever known and its whats comfortable to me. I just feel trapped by my own thoughts and my life. I hate, resent, despise so much of where I come from. And I let it define me. Its not as simple as turning a switch on and off, its my emotions. I cant do that. I dont want to take medication. I dont want to suffer anymore, but I do.. its weird.

I know the steps that I have to take to get over this, I just never take them.
 

Hey mate.. I don't like hearing the fact that your sadness is taking over you. You can always PM me for help. I do understand how you feel, just realize that there is help waiting for you. It is temporary, I promise.
 
I don't get depressed simply because i do not let shit bother me. Life goes on, live it as best as you can!

Thanks for writing this bro!!!
 
BasedGod said:
I don't get depressed simply because i do not let shit bother me. Life goes on, live it as best as you can!

Thanks for writing this bro!!!

That's great attitude my friend! It is great that you do not let anything get to you. Thanks brother!
 
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