How to be a perfect mom?

I become a mother at the age of 22, so I always ask myself if; how I can be a perfect mom?
To be perfect its really hard, coz nobody's perfect. When I become a mother, being a perfect mom means to me as a responsible parenthood and giving all your best as I can to my child.
How about you, how to be perfect mom?

markirinekfc said:

I become a mother at the age of 22, so I always ask myself if; how I can be a perfect mom?
To be perfect its really hard, coz nobody's perfect. When I become a mother, being a perfect mom means to me as a responsible parenthood and giving all your best as I can to my child.
How about you, how to be perfect mom?

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Well,there is no perfect mother and every will commit mistakes.You can only perfect,meaning be matured on things that you are experience for.There is perfect,we just to learn every things that we experience from bad to good experience.And that is part of our life to be matured..

These are the instructions to be a perfect mother:


1
Understand your child is unique. No book, article, parenting class or lecture will give you the exact answers for your child. Take in information, then adapt it to each of your children based on his or her personality.

2
Follow your instincts. You should know your child better than anyone else. Even mothers without the "mothering gene" have internal warnings and insights to their children that no one else has.

3
Be your own kind of mom. Parenting the exact way another mother parents will not make you the perfect mother. Use your own talents and strengths to enrich your child's life and influence your family's activities and schedule.

4
Acknowledge that being a mother is trial and error. Admitting that something is or is not working is key in being a more perfect mother. Being able to identify what works, but especially what does not work allows you to make positive changes for you and your child.

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Treat this like a job. Parenting is not something that just happens. It is something that you will have to work at everyday. You have to want to do your best in this occupation to be successful and to see results.

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Know when to step back. Being the perfect mother does not mean that you do everything for you child. Allowing your children to grow and develop on their own will not only strengthen them as they age, but will also strengthen your relationship as mother and child.

I think, everyone should accept that nothing is perfect in this world. Trying to be perfect, then, will only make you miserable as you will always encounter mistakes in your life.