Handeling Teen Age kids

Teen age children are like glass particles, we must handle with them care. Always be friendly with your teen age kid and try your maximum to keep close with them. Watch their activities keenly. Teen age is the age where a lot of person lost their life by doing some unwanted things. At this age we don't know which is right and which is wrong, also most of us don't like advices and the person who offer advice. So we must handle our teen age kid with lot of love and care.

Really it is very hard to grow up our children in this teen age period. If we miss our concentration with them, there may be a chance which lead them in wrong way. Supervising them and searching their things don't give benefits to us. If our children come to know that we are supervising them they will get hatred with us. So avoid this kind of searching and supervising activities. Just move with them as friendly and show a lot of love and affection to them. Surely they will treat us as their best friends and share everything with us. Don't hide their personals from us.

Handling today teenager as very tough,we have to look after them in a good manner,in this time the behaviour of a person is changing the major thing behind it is friends,they have the ebility to change a person,parents have to look after this kid in a soft manner and don't try to be harsh toward them always..!

The teenage years are perhaps the most difficult years for parents and kids. As with any relationship, your relationship with your kids goes through different cycles and stages. While you were their "hero" in the toddler years, by the teen years you may become just an "advisor to the board" -- someone you hope they will consult on crucial decisions!

Add teenage behavior problems to the parenting mix and things can be downright
tough. How you, as a parent, handle these potentially tumultuous years is
important for your own well-being and your child's.
One of the most effective preventative methods is to give your teen choices. I
discuss this on page 127 of my book When You're About To Go Off The Deep End,
Don't Take Your Kids With You. Teach your teenagers responsibility by giving
them choices such as the following:

- "What day are you going to do the grocery shopping this week?"

- "I've written a check out for this season's clothing allowance. Would you like
to shop alone or would you like me to come along?"

- "You have $250 for activities this semester. Which will you choose?"

When teens are offered choices on a regular basis, they become better equipped
to deal with the more difficult choices that life will inevitably throw their
way, such as:

- To decide whether or not to take drugs.

- To stand up for themselves.

- To walk away from violence.

- To choose friends who support them.

- To end unhealthy friendships.

- To pick high school courses they will enjoy.

- To decide if and when to have sexual intercourse.

Since teenage behavior problems don't just crop up over night, it's important to
start practicing your "preventative medicine" early on. Give your children
choices--no matter how young they are. Toddlers can decide what color pants they
want to wear, and school-aged children can determine whether to do their
homework before or after snack time.

It's never too early to start giving your children choices. Such choices teach
them responsibility and prepare them for the "bigger" decisions that lie ahead.