Guys/Girls, I need you.

Ive never really opened up to fk, this will be the first time I really truly and genuinely do.

Here it goes.
My girlfriend and I have been dating for 7 months as of yesterday. We have came to a realization that we both don't want that to change. Well, thats at least what I thought. Yesterday, I had a scrimmage for my high school football team and I play on varsity so I had to show up. I played, I was frustrated at my coach as players do. I was really angry to say the least, she was there, along with her family and friends. At the end of the whole thing I had no ride home so her parents offered to do so. Her parents approached me and her I wasn't very talkative at all due to me being ay school from 7:30 in the morning to 8:30 at night. Her parents thought it was awkward that I wasn't speaking to them. I got in the car and was very silent the whole ride to my house. Keep in mind I was still mad over the game. I thanked them for the ride and got out the car slowly. Then proceeded to shower then get in bed. I was also expecting a meal when I got home, which I didn't get. So I just went to bed. I was mad and telling her how mad I was about everything that night. She got mad at me, I was ranting about how mad I was about me not having a meal and the other shit I mentioned earlier. She thought I was blaming her. Which I wasn't trying to at all, I was just ranting. Anyway she just told me, "goodnight." and that was it. I tried to fix the situation, nothing worked.

To add to this.

She has been saying she has been feeling horrible all week, not by an illness but she says she doesn't know what. I personally, think its me. We also haven't been kissing a lot lately, like we used to. She just has that vibe where I feel like she is going to leave me. I DO NOT WANT THAT AT ALL. Ive dedicated way too much of my life to her and ONLY her. She is all I care about and id do anything to make her happy and be mine forever. I just am in a stump guys. Im acting like an ass toward everyone and I'm flat out just not happy.

Someone please, HELP ME. I NEED SERIOUS HELP.

Its a common misconception to think that, in order to show your partner that you love them, that you have to shower them with affection.

I don't think you really have anything to worry about... I would lower my expectations a little, but that's just me.


Relationships aren't just all ups on this ride. Don't forget about the downs too. The point of a relationship is riding the whole thing, together.

Show up at her house around dinner time with flowers and say something like i just had to see you idk something romantic and if they offer dinner say yes, TALK TO HER PARENTS. GL

Fireworks said:

Its a common misconception to think that, in order to show your partner that you love them, that you have to shower them with affection.

I don't think you really have anything to worry about... I would lower my expectations a little, but that's just me.


Relationships aren't just all ups on this ride. Don't forget about the downs too. The point of a relationship is riding the whole thing, together.

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Maybe I am just over re acting but its not like her.

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Self said:

Show up at her house around dinner time with flowers and say something like i just had to see you idk something romantic and if they offer dinner say yes, TALK TO HER PARENTS. GL

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Ive been talking to her parents as well. They see my point.

Do what @self said. Unexpectedly show up and make her understand what the problem was and how it wasnt her fault in any way shape or form. Facetime me, we can talk it out.

You're not being fun and lovable to be around. That's that. That's why all of this is happening. She is starting to lose joy out of being with you. Change what you're doing, and be more enjoyable.

It's okay though cause you're in high school, and you guys have only been together for seven motnhs, and you guys will break up anyways when going off to college.

More importantly, you're on the VARSITY football team. Send me sum pics of dat bod babe?

Mars said:

You're not being fun and lovable to be around. That's that. That's why all of this is happening. She is starting to lose joy out of being with you. Change what you're doing, and be more enjoyable.

It's okay though cause you're in high school, and you guys have only been together for seven motnhs, and you guys will break up anyways when going off to college.

More importantly, you're on the VARSITY football team. Send me sum pics of dat bod babe?

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well thats kinda messed up. I know soooo many people that have dated since high school and are still together today. They can make it through. I have faith.

In No joke at all or anything.

I Had this same situation and all we needed was more bonding. I started sneaking over to her house and sleep with her and watch a movie. (Cuddling) No sex or anything.

Another thing you can do is on a weekend just go and take her to movies and buy everything. Dont let her pay for the fucking gas.

Mars said:

You're not being fun and lovable to be around. That's that. That's why all of this is happening. She is starting to lose joy out of being with you. Change what you're doing, and be more enjoyable.

It's okay though cause you're in high school, and you guys have only been together for seven motnhs, and you guys will break up anyways when going off to college.

More importantly, you're on the VARSITY football team. Send me sum pics of dat bod babe?

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I honestly, think you are right. Im not the same. I need to change my attitude pronto before shit goes down hill.
ON THE SERIOUS NOTE, yes. Im on varsity.

Well I don't know if this is the problem, but I did this to my ex. I started falling out of love with her quiet early in the relationship and I didn't know how to end it. She ended up doing something stupid ( totally forgot what, that' how stupid it was) I ended up breaking up for her using that as an exscuse. Maybe this is what your girl is trying to do :s hopefully it isn't because it's a dick move.

Random said:

Show up naked, with an astronaut helmet on. That's romantic.

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please stay realistic, I know how you are. But please stay on topic. love you.

This kind of shit happens with everyone man. Even to me when I was in high school. Just try to make things right with her. Discuss the flaws that u have had over the past couple of weeks or whatever and say that your sorry and you want things to work out for the best for you two. However, DO NOT overboard that move at all as it makes you seem clingy towards her cuz girls hate that shit. Just be flat out and real with her and it should be fine. Best of luck to you

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In No joke at all or anything.

I Had this same situation and all we needed was more bonding. I started sneaking over to her house and sleep with her and watch a movie. (Cuddling) No sex or anything.

Another thing you can do is on a weekend just go and take her to movies and buy everything. Dont let her pay for the fucking gas.

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Ive done this before in the past. Shit was gucci till we got caught.

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Police said:

This kind of shit happens with everyone man. Even to me when I was in high school. Just try to make things right with her. Discuss the flaws that u have had over the past couple of weeks or whatever and say that your sorry and you want things to work out for the best for you two. However, DO NOT overboard that move at all as it makes you seem clingy towards her cuz girls hate that shit. Just be flat out and real with her and it should be fine. Best of luck to you

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Im really going to try this, I need to make stuff work between me and her.

Well good luck with everything bro.