FUCK MY LIFE?(Read!)

Hey Guys,(Please Read)
So at the moment my life is really fucked up. Some members might know this already but my parents are divorcees. So she kicked my dad out who is like the best person I know and for a while he was living in his car. But now after 1 year he has an apartment and its pretty nice. Now here is the fucked up part. Before my dad moved out my Mom was dating other men. In the first 2 weeks of the divorce she latches onto this dick named Andy. Then Andy moved into my house within the first month of the divorce. Now this is where it gets bad. At exactly 11:00 PM every single night they start fucking. Now my mom cant just shut her mouth or fuck at another time. And I get that adults and teens need to satisfy their sexual needs, but in the room right next to your son. AND SHE IS TOO FUCKING LOUD! Now lets describe Andy. I describe him in three words... Wannabe hick douche bag. He is always singing country songs that aren't real songs, just everyday things he does. Now I would just go live with my dad, but my mom restrains me from leaving so it is like a FUCKING Prison. And my dad also has to pay her child support and Alimony which she makes him pay 4x the normal amount. And my mom has told herself that she has done nothing wrong. And my mom is trying to sue my Dad because she thinks he has an extra bank account with a lot of money. He has been living in his fucking car for a year! And my mom thinks I don't know this but, I have found out that she has a secret bank account with money. And yet she is always bitching about how we can get anything to eat because "your dad doesn't pay me at all". Right now im living with my dad on the weekends and on separate occasions he has had to ask me for a couple bucks for a movie or something. And every once a week she'll make me go on a 3 hour walk and bitch to me about my dad. And Andy keeps on yelling about how I should hold the door for him and respect him and I just yell back "To have respect you must earn respect muther fucker". And this part really creeps me out. The short name for my mom is Candy and then his is Andy.And they also have the same exact car right down to the color and model.
And I also have School, Football, Lacrosse, and Finals to worry about.So that is what my life has been for the last 1 3/4 years. Post how your lives are fucked up or just comment.
Sincerely,
Kill
P.S.- PLEASE no FLAME/SPAM posts. -Thanks

EDIT: And the worst part is i had my sis take my dog over to my dads because he seemed depressed so i like never see him
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I don't know how well this might work but try to make a difference. If you don't do anything its just going to get worse. If anybody else can give you some advice please help him out, you don't have to let your evil mom get away with this shit.

Skunk said:

I don't know how well this might work but try to make a difference. If you don't do anything its just going to get worse. If anybody else can give you some advice please help him out, you don't have to let your evil mom get away with this shit.

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I have done everything I can man.

Kill said:

I have done everything I can man.

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Damn dude. I have no idea how divorces work but it seems like its not a very good system.

Sounds like you need to man up, put your foot down and tell them how it's going to be from now on. The worse thing they can do is kick you out, which would means you get to live with your dad and he no longer needs to pay her money. Seriously all you need to do is tell them what you want and how things need to change. Make yourself the man of the house instead of Andys girlfriends son. Just so you know, all you have to do is tell your dad to tell his lawyer you want live with him, it's always the kids choice. But if you want change you have to make it happen.

I say the best thing for you to do is just to get you dad to file custody for you. If you just tell a judge how life has been with your mom it shouldn't be a problem for your dad to get custody of you.

Get a long ass knife and go to town on Andy.

How old are you?
If you are above 13 you can chose to go with your dad I did the same thing.

thats sucks dude. im really sorry. i would just walk in the room while there going at it and tell them to shut the fuck up. if the door is locked, fucking kick that shit down like they do in the movies. KAAA POW!

OMFG, my mom divorced my dad, and she was the one cheating dating guys before the divorce and he got the same bad end that yours did when he did nothing. His name was also Andy and he is also a Hick and is still dating her off and on. The only thing in your story not similar to mine is they don't fuck when I'm there, since I moved out now.

New respect for you, sorry to hear, I already got into a fist fight with the redneck bitch awhile ago. Now whenever I go over there I pour all his mountain dew in the sink, and put hand sanitizer in his dip.

Sounds like your mom was already cheating on your dad before the divorce. I would just keep showing up at your dads and staying after awhile she will let you stay.

By the way, how old are you? You can almost always legally move in with your other parent at any age. you also have the right to not see your other parent if there are valid reasons for you to not see them anymore. my parents are divorced as well. i live with my mom, and my dad lost his half custody of me.

If your mom won't let you move in with your dad then force her to kick you out.

Jerry said:

How old are you?
If you are above 13 you can chose to go with your dad I did the same thing.

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Do you mean Emancipation? In Colorado I have to be 18 and right now I'm 15.

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Christy said:

Sounds like your mom was already cheating on your dad before the divorce. I would just keep showing up at your dads and staying after awhile she will let you stay.

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I actually have she only let's me stay with him over the weekends so we hangout during the week during lunch or something.

That really sucks man. I suggest that you talk to a counselor at school. Some schools have some really cool ones. I got close to a counselor in middle school. Relives alot of stress, and allows to get a little extra time off school considering its during school hours that you go in. My parents are still together, and have been since I was born so I have no idea what its like to have divorced parents, but I am sure I have somewhat of a clue.

From what it sounds like to me is that you really should move in with your father. Until that happens I suggest just ignoring Andy. I would also rain check on the 3 hour walk's with your mom. Make excuses, and during the days when you are at home and Andy is singing around the house just turn on some music in your room so you cannot hear it, as well as making it known that you dislike him singing.

Hit me up anytime to talk. I am no professional counselor or have all the time in the world, and I sure as hell don't know everything. But I have had, and currently have my own problems. Some big some little. But I have been threw some serious shit in my life so far. I seem to get new problems everyday. Online and offline.

Thanks Philly. I might do that

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I am sorry to hear about what`s been taking place in your life kill. At the moment I am going through my parents separating aswell and it has been hard on me too considering they were together for pretty much my entire life. I hope things get better for you in life and if you need someone to talk to I do have XBL and aim so just pm me if you wanna add me on either one so we could maybe chill and talk.