Fights In a Relationship is Good

supahmanross9

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Well, there is a very thin line between love and hate. I don't really know why we do things that we know are going to hurt the one we love and I'm sure that you will get answers that "well you don't love each other then" but I really don't think that's always the case. The best advice I can give you is try to communicate better but both of you have to be willing to try not to do this to each other because if only one person is putting forth the effort then it's not going to work.
Love should not have to hurt,start loving yourselves first in order for you to be able to accept the love from each other.In every good relationship there has to be good fights just to keep the peace if you dont fight you end up all depressed because you dont get to let your feelings out.
All of us are selfish,love happens when we compromise our selfish attributes for some one,there we love that person more than us.But as with all other achievements we take our love for granted too,there arises the problem,we get selfish again.We start having expectations from the person we love,and when our expectations are not fulfilled we get irritated and act mean to each other.under the spell of irritation we say mean words to each other.selfless love is the only way you can curtail it .
 
The essence of a relationship for me is to have someone who complements me. Humans as we are, we do commit mistakes within ourselves and to others which includes of course, our loved ones. It does not mean that all throughout the days that you are together with your partner, all will be smooth sailing and happy moments. There are times that find yourself in a situation where you fight with him/her and even throw cuss words. Fighting with each other does happen that's because we have different principles and beliefs which often leads to misunderstanding and furthermore, to miscommunication. Fighting does allow each other to ventilate their feelings about the fight itself but it should not damage each other. You fight in a certain circumstance and not to the person. After everything is resolved and done, partners will feel good with each other and thus, it will help their relationship to blossom and to improve!
 
fighting is a part of anybody's life as a couple,as a friends,as a family.
as a couple sometimes there is reason why they fight to each other its natural.
 

Each and every words are true..I also felt that I am very selfish over my partner that make us fight sometimes ..I believe after fight we should compromise that will make your bond more strong..
 

In my case, it's a healthy relationship if there's a little fight. It's a way to understand more each other and getting more sensitive in complying to your relationship. But though it helps, you should always remember that misunderstanding should not last before the day ends, make it up and let your love overwhelm the air and forget whatever hatred it brings towards you.
 

well, in my opinion no perfect marriage relationship at all arguments and fightings are always there,thats really a part of a relationship .
 
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