Fall secretly inlove with your friend.

Me falling secretly in love with my friend..doesn't happen but a friend falling in love with me..well..it happened. 2 of my friends actually. The first one, we ended up as enemies because he can't accept the fact that he don't have a chance with me and the other one was my very best friend. Sad to say that even now that we are both married he confessed that he loves me more than his wife.That they ended up leaving separate lives now.

what a difficult situation you got there.

i haven't tried falling in love with a friend because i treat them like my brothers and sisters.

for your situation, it's not your fault. some people simply misinterpret the way we treat them. since you said that you also haven't tried falling in love with a friend, you can tell your best friend how you feel about his feelings for you and his separation with his wife because of you. it's possible that it will end up like the one you had with your other friend, but it's worth a try before it takes an effect on your marriage as well.

if you fall secretly inlove with your friend its gonna be just platonic. and falling secretly inlove with your friend is not a good idea i think. love is uncontrollable feelings, if you cant control that feeling, your friendship might be at risk.

There's more chances for you in falling in love with your fren coz u knw him /her very well but think for a while is that a real luv?????? Are u in really in lop wid him/her as it might be the infatutation only. So make consideration for this also

kikay said:

Me falling secretly in love with my friend..doesn't happen but a friend falling in love with me..well..it happened. 2 of my friends actually. The first one, we ended up as enemies because he can't accept the fact that he don't have a chance with me and the other one was my very best friend. Sad to say that even now that we are both married he confessed that he loves me more than his wife.That they ended up leaving separate lives now.

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I think people should make up their mind about who they really love before getting married. If one doesn't love the person he's going to marry, they shouldn't. That is why there are so many divorces and broken homes!!
Anyway I have fallen in love with my close friend too. We had a realtionship for a year long and then we broke up. We aren't freinds anymore and we don't speak too!!