My parents have been divorced since I was 5. Its still weird to me now after so many years because my dad has a girlfriend so every time I see her I have to be really nice to her, my dad wants me to think of her as a mom, but I could never do that. The reality is, I don't like that she just came out of no where. I understand that love is love but one day I went to my dad's house, And she had moved in. My mother doesn't have any love interests and I respect that, because she isn't putting pressure on me to put another person in my life. The holidays aren't even the same at my dad's house anymore, because my dad's girlfriend has 3 kids. Its like I'm with a new family, and it makes me sad that my mom can't be there to expirence it. I basically have the same holiday twice a year because I can't be at both houses in the same day. I know I sound like a pussy but it just really effected me being so early in my life. I never really talked about this before, it's nice to just spill it all. Thanks if you read this all.