Best of luck with whatever you choose. I do take offense with one portion of your statement. I talk about dicks and faegits and pounding buttholes all the time. I have like 10 FK members begging for my D on the daily, and I provide them the drinks they need. But I have like 200 posts. I don't make a post that isn't relevant to what's going on. Of my 200ish posts, there's not one mofo on here that will tell you I'm LQ. Yeah, I act like an idiot sometimes, but that's because acting like an uptight cunt all the time is boring and kills everybody's buzz.
And on the groups thing; just don't be in any? I refuse to join them because the owners are either LQ, harbor scammers or are snooty. Even a couple of the supposed "HQ" groups have snooty cunt leaders. I won't name names, but they know who they are.
Anyways, yeah, best of luck and I hope you find happiness in your life, no matter what you do.