Children Or Without Children?

Child is a gift and an angel..i love children.. they are so lovable and wonderful to be with... but still many people prefer not to have children after marraige.. i really dont understand why is it so.. just think about it..:Happy:

Well maybe those couple aren't ready yet. Maybe they still want to focus on their career. In having children you must be mentally and financially ready. So maybe they need more time, but someday they will change their minds I guess.

cpriya108 said:

Child is a gift and an angel..i love children.. they are so lovable and wonderful to be with... but still many people prefer not to have children after marraige.. i really dont understand why is it so.. just think about it..:Happy:

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Yep children are gifts and angel in disguise. I love kids a lot and when I get married I am surely gonna have kids :Laugh:
But yeah some people don't want kids and I think that's perfectly Ok coz it's their life and their decisions so i guess we shouldn't judge or mistake their thoughts.

To some people children could be considered a joy, but to others it might just be a burden. I know this might be a bad parallel, but it's almost like having a pet. Some people choose to have them and others don't. It might also be that some people like the flow of life that's going on and dont want change. Personally I think children would be a joy and when you break it down that is the purpose of humans beings when talking strictly primal instincts.

cpriya108 said:

Child is a gift and an angel..i love children.. they are so lovable and wonderful to be with... but still many people prefer not to have children after marraige.. i really dont understand why is it so.. just think about it..:Happy:

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in order to be fully happy, of coarse to have children.

IF you getting married of course expect that you can have a baby,,,but for the others and i dont know also they always saying that they are not ready for having a baby,why they get married if they are not yet ready,lol. maybe they only saying that they are not yet ready for having a baby because,even they trying to have they can't have.

For me i will go with chidren after marriage and need to have child after,coz these is natural thing and we have to follow also.